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male
age
36-40,
*eDragon
writes:My girl friend and have been together for two years. I've never met someone like her she's sweet and caring. But she's 18yr.s old and I'm 21 I had little experience before her but I was her first kiss. I told her two things I could deal with high school drama and dishonesty. Six months ago before my girl friend went on vacation we had a large fight. Which left my devastated because she didn't want to see me before she left. So I decided that we act single with out cheating figure out if that was what I wanted. Which left me going out with my best friend and two of his female friends. My friended up having to leave early which left me with both girls. After much goading from the two females I slept with them both. Which left me devastated not only for my girl friend but for my self I always thought of my self as having high moral fiber. So I told my girl friend of my transgression as soon as she got back from her vacation. Like I said that was six months ago and she says she forgave but she couldn't forget it. Well 4months ago she made a new group of friends one being a girl she's known for about as long as she's known me. The other her best guy friend I didn't like the feeling I would get when she would talk about them they seemed unstable and immature compared to my girl friend. So I told her that I didn't want her drink with out me (she's only drank a couple of times with me mixing her drinks). Well she went of vacation with this female friend of hers a month ago and came back a different person. My feeling told me something was up. But I dismissed my feelings of something being wrong for her. Well it turns out that she came back from vacation and stayed with her friend. Went to the mall and held hands with this boy to see if she could have feeling for any one else. (I found out that my girl friend had told her new female friend about my cheating and she thought that she should hook up with her male friend instead of me.) So that night after the mall she got drunk with her female friend, her boy friend and her guy friend. The girl friend left her there alone with the guy friend and she gave him he*d. The guy friend later posted a comment for all my friends to see say I didn't deserve my girlfriend and that if I hurt her again she was all his. I let her take care of it the whole time she said everything was fine. I found this all out after she put me though a month of pure h***. After I had spent a whole prom with both of her friends setting aside my hate for her guy friend. After prom everything was great the following week she came over to my apartment and had a great time. While at my apartment she log on to myspace and didn't log off. Seeing she had new mail from a mutual friend I opened it and it was story about what had happened. With her friends reply. That was few days ago and she's state that she wanted to see if she could feeling for anyone else. We planned on moving in together when she graduated and to get engaged. I now realized how much I sacrificed for I her say anymore this to wordy and has no spaces so must be a daunting read. I leave you with one question can we ever have regular relationship again or is it wash.Thanks I feel better typing this wither anyone comments this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Live and learn my friend. This relationships OVERRRR !
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