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*lueflower
writes:i feel i am degrading/diminishing him, i can`t see him doing that ,i always stop him and just want to hug him and make love . the feeling isn't bad ,but that`s not how i wanna feel with him , i would rather have sexi had my ex performing oral on me, because simply i didn'tt feel much connection and all i wanted is gettin off quicklyam i weird??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2012): Well... I'm just the same as you are, I felt it was somehow degrading to see him like that. After a long while I've sorted myself out to be more submissive sexually and i am attracted to what seems dominant... which is why him "going down" on me seemed to feel wrong :/
Hard for me to say if its the same for you : P lol just giving you something to think about
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reader, babu3u +, writes (21 January 2012):
 I don't only think oral sex is something that you can't connect or just a "naughty" thing to do. Some men really enjoy watching a girl moaning with pleasure and seeingg their faces. Specially since men are very visual. I love giving oral to my boyfriend because I can see what a good time he is having because I am the one that makes him feel so great. If you think about it its a very intimate thing to do with another. Is something I only share with him and he shares with me.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 January 2012):
 Weird, no. Uptight, perhaps. Why performing oral on his woman should be degrading/ diminishing for a man ?? There's nothing shameful in seeking and giving pleasure.
Anyway, if you don't like it, don't do it. Not a problem. Everybody has different preferences.
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reader, blueflower +, writes (21 January 2012):
blueflower is verified as being by the original poster of the questionu can`t feel the connection through oral ,it`s naughty ,it`s just about ur own pleasure and i feel that i want to share more than that with this guy
i think i wanna try tantric sex with him :)
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (21 January 2012):
Nothing weird, its just your preference.
Mother nature impels us to have sexual intercourse,not lick each other. That is incidental, and nothing wrong with doing or not doing it.
Just tell him what you like. If he is doing oral on you his motives are to please you.
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