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writes:Ok. I have typed in a few questions in the past about being pregnant and all that. But i just wanna give the whole story so i can get the exact correct info about it. Today is the 24th March... On the 21st, i had dry sex with my boyfriend. Dry sex is like sex with clothes on rite. Then i just had my underwear on and he had his underwear on, he lowered my underwear and he put the head (well it was just a very little bit of the tip of his penis) on my vagina, he didnt go anywhere near my hole, it was more at the top of my vagina i think somewhere near the clitoris. So clearly he didnt cum INSIDE me.. both ways.I gave him a blowjob and handjob before we did this and he came, so i think maybe there was still some cum on the head of his penis when it touched my vagina.Is it possible that it could have like ran down and entered me? But i heard if exposed 2 air.. it dies?could i be pregnant? or am i just being paranoid?please tell me i am just being paranoid. I am only 15.. turning 16 in a few months. I cannot be a mother already! We're both freaking out here! We both havent slept since we thought of the possibilty of me beign pregnant.Another thing... i am expecting my period on the 28th. Thats 4 days from now but exactly a week after we did that. I have researched and looked on websites about when you are most fertile and they use some terminology that i dont reli understand. I think u are at more risk 2 weeks before your period.. for me it was one week. still a big risk? When is it safe , when not safe? Very confused with all of that kinda stuff! I am seriously just sitting here wishing for my period 2 come. It does mean that if it comes.. i am 100% NOT pregnant rite? Cos i read that a pregnant woman can have a bit of menstrual blood? AND if my period doesnt come.. am i definitly pregnant?Please pleaSE please can someone help me here. I have been in tears for the past 2 days and i dont know what to do!!! I am disgusted in myself and TRUST ME i have learnt my lesson.. next time i am being soooo careful. condoms no matter wat, morning after pill no matter wat (or is that dangerous when not necessary?) I have been praying non stop!! Hopefully God will answer my prayers but i cant just rely on that. i need to know the facts. Please someone help me its urgent!!:( tahnk u xxx
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reader, darksecretangel  +, writes (7 May 2007):
 hun it is normal because your young and periods take time to develop into the whole once a month cycle etc also there mite be something else that is making them iregualer such as stress. which could mean that you take some time to change your life style if you are worried about your periods hope this helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy period came a week after i posted this question, but it has not come since then.... so its basically 2 weeks late now. is that normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): I think u be fine. but please stop having sex. please half thoses boys dont care about you,they just want to get in ur pants. im sure ur a nice girland ul meet someone on eday but not yet . please enjoy being 15 and dont worry about sex or relationships till ur ready to face the consequences. take it from me, i have made many mkistakes and i have many regrets. stop stressing because your period might become late due to that. good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): highly unlikely that you are pregnant but theres no way to tell for certain unless you take a pregnancy test or see a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): You could be pregnant but the chances are so so so incredibly low. You should be aware that as you are stressing out over this then it is highly likely that your period will be late. I've known of girls in your situation to have a period 3 weeks late because of stress and worry.
Next time, take emergency contraceptive as soon as you can after something like this happens - within 3 days. It is not dangerous to take this, but it should never be used as a contraceptive, it is for emergencies only.
All the best, and I am sure you will be absolutely fine.
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