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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hello aunts...me and my boyfriend , though we were never ever in a relation but always behaved so speaking on hours on phone or texting each other or chatting online but after an year i asked him out but he said he was already in a relation and was sorry to me anyhow things changed and his long time girl friend left him and now suddenly hes coming to me again , talking on phone and texting me ..i just want to know what is going on in his mind ..what does he want from me ..do you think he loves me now that he knows my value or is it just again a thing for him.please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011): Thank you all here for ur advice i will really consider it but i love him from him a lot actually and trust me he dont thinks of me as inferior rather i guess theres something going in his mind that is stopping from rebounding anyhow i am myself confused..thanq all
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 gotta echo the chorus here. You are the spare tire in this line up.
If this person regards you in such an inferior way, would you really wish to be with them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011): I think he thinks that your case will be a good rebound !!!
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (27 May 2011):
 I would say you are the back up plan.If he wants a relationship with you..make him earn it. Go on living life and date other people that respectful.First, respect yourself. DO not settle for pseudo-relationships hoping they will turn into something more.Best Wishes
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 May 2011):
Exactly what angelDlite says. I think you're kept around as the spare.
Time to move on and find a guy who does value you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): well, we all know how it goes sometimes... we fall in love and only have eyes for him/her and forget the rest of the world for a while (which makes many people commit mistakes). i cant tell you wether he loves you or not. but i think that he understands the value of your special friendship,, maybe he's even sorry he's been spending much more time with his girl than with you?? however,, dont let yourself get carried away by love... i made a mistake like that once and nothing's the same anymore. My special advice to everyone: choose for yourself. good luck girlie xx
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (26 May 2011):
 i know you won't wanna hear this but i think you are just someone who keeps him company between relationships. he 'behaved' like he was your boyfriend but then when you asked him out properly he admitted to being in a Rship already?? and now that's over he wants you back in his life? if you enjoy his company the phone and online then thats fine, but get on with your life away from that too though, coz if he wanted an Rship with you i think he would've asked you already
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