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*opelessromantic15
writes:okay so this guy i have been dating for just about two weeks tomorrow (i know not a long time) but usually for me it's really easy for me to be with any guy. But this guys is so difficult! I don't get to see him everyday, I see him at church on Wednesdays and sometimes on the weekends. But here's the problem, he doesn't really text me at all! He doesn't text me good morning or goodnight, he doesn't say anything sweet (most guys say it in a text message anyways). He's super boring to text but it's the only way i can talk to him since i don't see him often. BUT when we hang out, it's the exact opposite. He's gotta be right next to me, talking to me non stop, he doesn't really kiss me, only when i leave. But he's really sweet when we hang out. And he calls me pretty not beautiful. Is that bad? He never says i miss you. I'm the one that always says it, he just says miss you too. I don't know how to change this. I've known him for a year and we just started dating. I don't know why he's being like this?? Help!
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reader, hopelessromantic15 +, writes (29 May 2011):
hopelessromantic15 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah see we don't live that far away from each other but it's just gas prices and things like that that keep us part, so I don't know how to get him to actually talk! I try so hard to start a conversation but all I get is ya, k, and Kool most of the time...it's like he has some sort of wall I have to get past, which isn't a bad thing I just don't know how to get past it, but maybe you guys are right...am I just overthinking this and I just need to cherish it will I have it and stop worrying about this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 May 2011):
 oh i get that... we live two hours apart... lots of time is on the phone and such
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reader, hopelessromantic15 +, writes (28 May 2011):
hopelessromantic15 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTrue! Very true, but when txting and talking on the phone is all you got since you don't get to see eachother everyday...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 May 2011):
maybe he just does not like to text. my bf does not like text but we are great together.
stop over thinking this. just be with it and enjoy it.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (27 May 2011):
 You are thinking way to much about all these things when you should be enjoying those moments you have with this guy.
Maybe he is a face to face kinda guy and not a person to sit there with his nose pressed to his phone screen - consider that a blessing because people my age are hard to find like that!
The time a part makes the time together more sweet - so if he treats you right, enjoy every moment and look forward to the next time.
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