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writes:i broke up with my gf recently ...we were committed for a year and were planning about convincing our parents for our marriage...but being only 17 always used to talk about our marriage and kids and was super excited which made me feel awkward ... she was kinda extremely possessive and loved me from her true heart ...my feelings for her changed with time and i told her the truth before we departed though she became very panicky and was afraid to lose me but i cant help it..i want to move on in life and wanna completely forget about this girl! i heartly wanted her to carry on with her life and sorted it out! since we left i am anxious about one thing ...i wore a chain around her neck as a friendly gift ...she is kinda very possessive about that gift and it means a lot to her and she wears it all the time as i have gifted her that! i dont have any idea though.. i may sound silly but was just wondering....am i in any way tied to her after wearing that chain? she just casually asked me to wear it around her neck and i did! can it lead to any problems in the future if she comes and claim anything or becomes possessive? or should i forget about the incident and move on?
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reader, SweetSerendipity  +, writes (4 April 2009):
As Emily said, if you are the one wearing it, take it off and put it in box for safekeeping. She was a part of your life, and who knows. 30-40 years from now you'll come across this necklace (or her) again and you can smile and remember your teenage years with a warm smile!
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (4 April 2009):
 Throw the necklace away. You are NOT possessed by her. It doesnt matter if she bought you a house and had your child, you own yourself, and you dont have to do anything you dont want to do, including date a girl. Just throw it away and forget about her, or give it back and forget about her. Dont think that a gift makes you indebted to someone, that is false.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 April 2009):
You don't make it clear over whether she is wearing the necklace you bought her, or you are wearing it...
If you are wearing it then take it off.
If she is wearing it then don't worry about it and move on. I still wear some things that my ex bought me because they are pretty.
You are free and single as you broke up with her. What she does and wears now has no meaning to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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