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writes:We started dating 2 years ago, as co-workers (and his uncle owns the company so we hid our relationship for the first 6 months). I looked and found another job about a year into our relationship so that our relationship could work. Six months later, we had a bad fight and he broke up with me for the first time, and all of a sudden it went from, "Don't worry Baby, everything will work out fine" to, "Its never going to work". We've remained involved in each other's lives. He still comes around to my family's get togethers, but I'm no longer invited to his. In fact, I don't think his family even knows that we still see each other and sleep at each other's homes at least 5 days out of the week. Probably because his family (made of money) didn't approve of the relationship with the ex-coworker from the start. Why do I stick around? I know I deserve better and I know I shouldn't "go psycho" on him, trying to make him see things the way I see them, but I do it anyway. I know right from wrong, but I choose to do wrong anyway. WHY?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 April 2009):
You're doing it because it's dramatic, and it gives you a momentary high when you have sex with him.
And you have too low self esteem or self value to see that you actually could do much better than this.
Ask yourself what you want from a relationship... This so you get him for a little while, plus all that feeling because you know he is using you?
Or a guy that will care enough about your feelings not to use you for sex?
Good Luck!! xx
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