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writes:This i pathetic really and i know it shouldn't bother me but it does, suddenly all my friends seem to have boyfriends [and girlfriends] and i'm the only one who hasn't got one, all off them are delieriously happy and i'm really pleased for them as we've all had a hard time this last year, so yeah any way they've all got bf/gf's and tehy're spending all their time with tehm, and now i'm the odd one out so when ever i go in to town with one of them their bf/gf comes with us and tehn they'll end up making out in front of me, i don't mind that much but it's constant. Also when i see them together i hate them, not beacuse tehir together and HAPPY but because they're TOGETHER and happy and i've got noone, then i hate my self for hating them. Now i just seem to spend most of my time thinking and gettting more and more depressed..it's ruining my life! please help! :)
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reader, kylapw  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 Hey (: I kind of get how you're feeling. My good friend just started going out with this guy...and she talks about how perfect he is and how many times they've kissed, etc. At first, I was just like you. I didn't understand why guys went for her and I didn't have anyone. But I got over that. You know what I love now? BEING SINGLE. (: Like, she has to constantly check her phone to see if he texted back. But I DON'T! :D It's great. Really...learn to love being single and not having to worry about HIM all the time (:
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (29 August 2008):
 saltwater did a great job.
ALSO, remember. one day you might meet a guy who will appreciate that "one less guy" you kissed. so don't get too eager to jump on the bandwagon! =]
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reader, saltwater +, writes (28 August 2008):
 "it's ruining my life!" ... life has barely begun for you yet!
Don't worry about this so much at your age -- it's easy to feel like you're somehow missing out; trust me, you're not missing out on much.
Having someone stick their tongue down your throat when you're a teenager isn't all that brilliant anyway ;-)
Having close friends is more important that having a partner at your age. So you're friends happy. Be happy for them and engage in their happiness.
Be glad that you are around friends who are happy.
It would a lot more depressing if your friends were boring :-)
Relax.
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