He talks to me on MSN, but not in public. Did he love me?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was dating a guy I really loved and who loved me back I'm sure but we or rather he ended the relationship unexpectedly one night by sms, saying that he didn't feel the same way he used to and that he would rather be (and I quote) "friends as we were before". The next days couple of days we didn't speak to each other at all nor at school nor on the phone. I had also found out that the day after he broke up, he announced it to the whole class and that was worse than being dumped. We started talking 2 or 3 days later in MSN but nothing concerning the break-up, just about some little medical problems I have.I also noticed in his blog,2 days after the breakup, he had written "love is like a nail.the more you push it in the wall, the more difficult it is to take it out". But I didn't tell him anything. We talked again maybe 3 more times but one day I got really fed up and told him that he could either speak to me both in public and in MSN or just not speak to me at all because he would ignore me at school and only talk to me in MSN. So we got in a fight and we didn't speak to eachother for like 2 months. After those 2 months, he came up to me at school, to talk to me in private. He said he wanted to apologise for the way he had behaved. I told it was water under the bridge even though I didn't feel like it was. He said that he had thought about me during winter break but the only thing I could do was just look down and n ot say anything. We eventually started talking again although not in public. He would ask me why didn't I go to the school's party, sorts of things like that. On my birthday, he wrote in his MSN pseudo "I love her for 8 months and now everything is great everything". There are 2 things you need to know. Firstly, we started dating 8 months ago. Secondly, he just started dating another girl. They eventually broke up (2months later). But we haven't talked to each other ever since he started dating her. It has been almost 1 and 1/2 years since we have tallked and i miss talking to him even as my friend. My questions are: Did he still love me after we broke up? Did he want to get back together with me or just hurt me? Why does he ignore me totally in class and pretends I don't exist anymore? I still love him

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