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writes:How willing are men to play out strange sexual fantasies that are suggested by their girlfriends? I want to do a little dress-up in the bedroom but I'm afraid he'll either completely reject the idea or in the moment, I won't be able to take it seriously. Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Most guys like to participate in fantasies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2011): To be honest, the only fantasy I have trouble with is my girlfriend bringing another guy/girl into it or replacing me. All other "fantasy" things I'm ok, whether its rough to crazy. Just see what he likes. Most guys would love to see that their girlfriend is interested in the bedroom
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Each man is different. I know my husband would try almost anything I throw out there, even when we were just dating he would. But, I have had boyfriends who wouldn't even go for tying me up or playful spanking. My suggestion is to bring up your fantasy as a dream you had. Get up some courage and say something along the lines of "I had this crazy sex dream last night where we...." and input your fantasy. If he seems interested ask him if he would like to help you act out the dream. If he seems put off by it, maybe try something less riskay and see if he likes that instead and work your way up to your fantasy.Good luck!
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reader, misztoria +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Hey. Guys are usually willing to try new things in the bedroom. If you are too afraid to bring it up, just play it off in a joke. Let's say you want to dress up as a sexy french maid. Tell him how something in your house needs cleaning then casually say something like "Maybe I should dress up as a french maid and you can watch me clean." Laugh it off and to your surprise he'll probably agree and get turned on by the idea. Hope everything works out for you! Role-playing is so much fun with both people are into it!
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