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writes: A Question about attitudes of sexual freedom.Keep in mind this is about sexual gratification only. Just don’t tell me that women are all about love and that men are all about sex. That is BS.So if a woman sleeps around why is she looked down on by other women. Does that not defeat your own feminine sexual freedom? On the other hand is it not also defeating for men to call a women a slut whore etc., because isn’t that just what men what? Women to be more free, open and aggressive sexually. Question for both sexes: are you protecting your own territory? Meaning you don’t want to have to compete the sex magnet interfering with someone you like? On our societal norms: Would our society become a sexual chaos? Fall of the Roman Empire? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 Sexual mores have evolved because of the basic biology involved. Women don't sleep around because they have to consider abortion or nine months of pregnancy and raising a child for 20 years. Men are feel more free sexually because they are not terrified about getting pregnant! Consider the fact that men are at their sexual peak at a young age and women peak later - this could have evolved to keep women interested in sex longer in life, therefore - producing more children. Marriage came about because men wanted to insure that they produced and raised only their own children. According to current studies, up to ten percent of children are biologically not those of their legal father, because women are driven by nature to sleep around to draw from the best available gene pool! Yet, the majority of women are drawn to one strong, successful man because of the desire to rear their offspring AND have her family protected and provided for. Nature is very sneaky, the whole biological point of copulation is to produce a baby, whether we use contraception or not! Nature will still try to sneak one sperm through to that egg - maybe that's why nature makes men produce a million of them! Mankind has devised it own way of trying to create societies that thrive with all of this "sexual chaos", some by sequestering their women, and others by equal rights admendments and a LOT of lawyers. I thank God every day for being born in North America where women can choose how they wish to live. It still, however, will not stop your neighbours from talking! Women will always be sizing up a man by how good a father (and partner) he would be - and I don't think that women can deny that basic fact. Unless basic biology changes, I don't think any form of society will change, because they have all evolved in their own way to encompass the fact that nature dictates how we behave.
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reader, home_land  +, writes (26 March 2007):
 helloits like that as you said ,in our heads there is a human mind and in that thing there is only 6%are working and this in case of a normal human , and we hope that the world one day will be normal and that will happind when we go back to our nature and use our 6% of thinking , and in the universe we are at the end we have got 26 letters we turn them around every day to make words and the words we make are not new like sex its an old thing and normal thing to do and not buy or run behend it and when they stop preducing pornos and sex films and sms and sex and the city you wont see sex like you see it now , and i am sorry to tell you that wont stop becouse they make cash with it so if you want sex you can buy it. Most people they have only one persont in the can that is work and sex .
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