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writes:There is this girl that i have met, she is very pretty and has a great personallity.After a couple days of knowing her i asked her what she thought of me, and all she could say was that i was "nice". my question is what does she mean by "nice"? Reply to this Question
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reader, childof1981 +, writes (31 August 2007):
 I play the numbers, when I take stock of all the girls that have referred to me as nice . . I get a list of good female friends and nothing more. If you are looking for another female friend you got one, but if you are looking for something else then look elsewhere.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 I'm with duce00. By the way, "nice" means "nice". Don't ever read deep into words.
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reader, duce00 +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Whoops!
Women dont tend to like insecure guys. Many (but not all) dont like to be cruel either. Thats what Im seeing here. Its best to keep the focus on her unless she asks YOU a question. Women also dont care for guys who are self centered. Asking her what she thinks about you implys you are more interested in yourself than her.
I understand that you probably didnt mean for it to come off like this because your still getting your sea legs on dealing with women. Im pretty confident that my advice will get you further than your last approach the next time you talk to a girl.
Best of luck young man, youll get it eventually. Its only taken me 20 years to stop making a complete fool of myself and I still get it wrong occasionally! Try to keep your sense of humor going, they really like that.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Asking someone what they think of you after a couple of days, i should think she was abit put on the spot. She probably had to scramble around for a suitable word to say and the first thing that came into her mind is that you were nice. By this she means you are a nice guy and she thinks you are ok. Its hard to say if she fancies you or not, keep going the way you are going and im sure time will tell.
All the best
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 dont worry its not code for anything bad!this girl has only known you for a few days and she may be shy and just want to get to know you more.are you looking to take things further?if so then give it a little time - get to know her more as a friend and vice versa,gain her trust and learn about eachother - she may just need time to do that xxx
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reader, Sandman +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Well, you asked. Nice could mean "nice" since you asked her what she thought of you. Now, had you attempted to ask her out or somehow asked her to go steady and all she said was you're "nice", then you'd have a problem.I was "nice" to many women during my teenage years. Nice, for me, usually meant that I was a nice guy, but not the type of guy they would go out with. That's what nice meant for me, not sure what nice means for you in this context. I honestly think you didn't give it much time. Only knowing her a couple of days. Give it some time. Don't rush into. Get to know her. Become her friend for a while and then begin the dance of romantic gestures. I'm sure some women will chime in on this subject, so I'll let them tell you what women like to hear and how to take it slow and all that jive. But you've got time dude. Take it.Hope this helps.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Hi,
It means nice, not horrible. Are you asking if she may wish to date you?.
She could be shy and like you but not know how to say it, or she could mean nice as in a friend. Only time will tell. You could just carry on and see where it leads, just be mates for a while and then she may open up a bit more.
Hope it works out for you.
XX
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