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3 days after losing my virginity I am sore, is this normal?

Q.   i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal? ...

A.   27 May 2008: Hey babydoll, The pain and swelling is kind of normal. However, the smell is not. Please go get tested for STDs. Also, please remember, men can spread yeast infections, as well. Yeast infections can cause smelling, discharge, cramps, and discolor... (read in full...)

Is my problem insecurity or not?

Q.   is my problem insecurity or not. i love my boyfriend very as he loves me. at times i know that he loves me and at times i just think he's out just for the physical thing. well, he is very charming and galz do love his company... he likes making ...

A.   27 May 2008: Hey there, Well, from your description, it sounds like your bf is a jerk. He really likes getting you all upset and seems to feed off of it. Believe me, if he left, it would not be a loss. If he continues to be disrespectful to you, by demeanin... (read in full...)

We haven't had sex yet, but he's such an amazing bf, he's prepared to give me a guilt-free day to explore my bi side!

Q.   okay Ive been on this site for quite a long time and I have ALWAYS gotten the advice that helped me through everything. So once again I need your help people!! Ive been with my guy for a year and a half and my life has never been better, heres the ...

A.   27 May 2008: Hey there, Doesn't matter if he is testing you. What matters is, can you go ahead with your "guilt-free" day knowing that no matter what he says, it may drive a wedge between you two? If your answer is yes, then go for it! If your answer is no or... (read in full...)

Is it better to ignore his calls till he gets the picture or talk to him and tell him it is over?

Q.   Hoping someone can help me here. I would appreciate it very much. My ex and I split a couple of years ago. After the split, which was painful for us both, he moved to another city, met someone else and was with her till last October. We have been ...

A.   27 May 2008: Please try the direct approach. Don't argue or plead your case, ask for him to respect your wishes and if he continues to try to sway you, then cease answering his calls. If it continues, change your phone number. Just try to give him the benefit of ... (read in full...)

How else besides lab tests can a pregnancy be determined?

Q.   IF a woman is suspected to be pregnant, what other means of test aside from lab tests can it be proven. like what color her vaginal secretions are? are they sticky or what?...

A.   27 May 2008: You normally are not going to see an immediate change in the mucosal discharge from the vagina. Women tend to show pregnancy in other parts of their body-in their breasts, mood, cravings, retention of water, need to pee, and lack of period. ... (read in full...)

I'm not having sex, but I've missed a period and have cramping pains and white gunk. What should I do?

Q.   i am 14 and i first had my period in Feb. this year. This last month in May i missed my peroid. I have been having this white gunk coming out i have also been having pains that feel like cramps but their not. I have never had sex. my mom is very ...

A.   27 May 2008: You might want to check out to see if you have a candida infection-also known as-yeast infections. They now have tests out in the store, or if you look it up and are pretty sure, you can go to the store and buy a treatment. You will get immediate ... (read in full...)

My uncle asked me out, and we've talked about having sex, but I have some questions.

Q.   Hey, im having trouble with a major issue in my life. My uncle asked me out and i like him a lot so I said yes. But we keep it a secret so he can spend the night. He is six years older than me. We talked about having sex, but I'm scared it will hurt ...

A.   27 May 2008: I think you can experience a lot of pain, and not all of it physical if you decide to go forward with having sex with your uncle. First and foremost, you don't need this. You are a worthy human being who deserves love and attention from somebody who ... (read in full...)

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