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reader, rachibear87  +, writes (31 March 2010):
Make sure you are 100% pregnant,go to the doctors and do a test. They will offer you support. Do what you want! No one can make you have an abortion. There is plenty of people that are trained to support you. Good luck. I wish you all the best honey. Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Get yourself to the doctor and make sure you are really pregnant.
Then speak to your mother or some other adult you trust and feel secure with.
Book the abortion as soon as possible and have your mother (or other adult come with you).
In the future make sure you always use contraception if you are having sex.
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Tell your mum or a sister, someone close to you that can help. Do a pregnancy test, you can buy the kits from a chemist/pharmacy. You might not be pregnant but if the test says you are, then go to your doctor for a check up and advice about your choices.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 March 2010):
First of all you need to confirm that you're pregnant. You need to get tested.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (31 March 2010):
Tell your Mum and go to the Doctors. I am sure it seems terrible but you are by far not the fuirst 14 year old to maybe get pregnant and you will not be the last?
You have not done anything wrong - you have been exploring that is all and as a result - this may have happened. If not Mum an Aunty. After a pause to get over it we will all still love you!
It is realy not that bad,
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Well have you bough a pregnancy test???The only way to start to resolve the problem ss by first figuring out if u are pregnant or not.If you are you are gonna have to tell the the person who you had sex with about it and seee what he wants i think u r very young to be a mom and its going to bring you alot of problems to your family and school but you can always have an abortion.i know its hard but try to relax and not think about it to much ur only 14.
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