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reader, krit  +, writes (15 May 2011):
 well if you slept with 2 or more guys at the same time while you were in relationship with them then maybe YES. But if you were just plain unlucky to find the right guy then strickly NO. There's no harm in enjoying sex for sex but if in these seven years if you didn't put any effort in gettin into a good stable relationship then thats big problem and you have reconsider that what you exactly want as seven years is quite a lot of time.
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reader, Fernando Garcia  +, writes (15 May 2011):
No your not a slut. But make sure you protect you don't want to catch an STD:( and make sure you know your partner before you have intercourse with him.
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reader, Philips  +, writes (15 May 2011):
 It makes about 2 guys a year,, doesn't seems much to me.
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (15 May 2011):
 Can't believe some of the things I'm reading. Girl take a six month break and ask yourself what you want! What kind of guy do you want to be with. I think you also give in too early to them. Don't have sex with him in the first 3-4 months ( personally, I'll wait a lot longer). Get to know them and be sure thery not just waiting to get into bed with you. I hope your next relationship works out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2011): What is a slut anyway?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut
To me you don't look like a slut, and I've only had 3 sexual partners in my entire life, and I'm way older than you.
Yet, to someone else, who has had 40 sexual partners, you might be considered a cheap slut.
The real question, is how do you feel about yourself. If you don't feel good about that, really deeply good about all that, then you have an issue you need to work on and it won't get fixed by having more sexual partners.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2011): no way. i completely agree with caring guy. not even two a year. that's so far from slutty it's not even funny. keep up the good work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): no you'd be a S*** if it was 13 guys a month 7 years is plenty of years for different guys like caringguy said your not even close
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (14 May 2011):
The number is note the problem. Your behaviour is what tells what kind of person you are. For example, were them serious relationships? Did you sleep with them in the first date?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): Although what CaringGuy is saying is totally true, look out for saying it out loud. Sometimes guys (and girls) are overly judgmental. People tend to forget their own actions!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011):
Hi
Please don't stick label's on yourself...i am sure many other's will do that for you anyway.
What if you INTENDED to have long loving relationship's with each of these men...and unfortunately each one of them had dumped you...is that your fault? No!
Be yourself and be safe but above all be happy and follow your heart...not what you think others think of you, it matters what you think of you.
spunky monkey
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011):
I prefer not to use terms like slut, but 2 per year seems like a lot to me. It means you are not having long-term relationships and that you are probably sleeping with men too soon in the relationship. Has it been 2 per year or was it more like 10 in one year and 3 in the next six years?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 May 2011):
If my maths is right, that's roughly two a year on average - so that's not really a lot to be honest. So no, you're not a slut at all. Not even close.
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