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writes:Hi,so to start I will tell you that i have really polymorphus eomtions and sometimes i don't know what i'm feeling.My queston starts by telling you that i have this friend. I admire and adore her, she is perfect to me. she's smart, outgoing, and so cute. I love her company more then anyother of my friends and it brightens my mood every time i talk to her or see her. She and I seem to have more incommon then any of my other friends. And I've started to notice that I'm fantisizing about being with her in the future. And since she's been gone for a week on a trip i miss her so much. more so then my bestfriend who has been gone away for school(5 months:( ).So, my question is that do i have feelings for her?or is it just a girl crush? or am i just more connected with her as a friend more so then the rest?PS: i don't know my sexuality yet b/c i believe i have nothing to base it on. and i dont have a prefrence nor am i uncomfurtable in like male or female
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2011): Thank you so much for your sharing and help. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2011): allow me to first start by saying that when i was your age, i found myself having very similar feelings. and i always just assumed it was because i was just more connected to them than any of my other friends. when i was around them, i got butterflies in my stomach, i looked forward to spending all of my time with them, they brightened my mood, etc. it never occured to me that this could be more than just friendly feelings, and i continued on dating guys.then i turned 18 and kissed a girl for the first time. and it finally made everything make sense. i started dating women from that point forward and never looked back. that was almost ten years ago. this doesn't mean you will turn out gay. but it sounds to me that your experience is very similar to mine. and i'll tell you one thing for certain. those feelings i felt for those friends at the time? that was love. i can't say with certainty that's how you feel, but looking back on my similar situation, i know that's how i felt. i hope this helped some.
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