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What if I lose this chance at a relationship over making dancing something so important?

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Question - (4 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a single, 36 year old female, never married and I love to dance. Every opportunity I get I am out at the club. I'm not out there to pick up anybody, just to dance. I've met a guy who doesn't dance. According to him, the dancing is a small thing, there are more important things in a relationship. To him, dancing is a small thing, to me, it is a big thing. How selfish am I to make this a big thing in a relationship? I know that there comes a time when both partners have to give something up for a relationship, but what if I regret it later? What if I lose this chance at a relationship over making dancing something so important?

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A female reader, Full moon temptress1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

He is obviously jealous that you love dancing.If he stops you doing this what else is he going to make you give up.I myself love to dance,i know the freedom it brings.As long aas your not out dancing seven nights a week,and have time for him,i can't see the problem.

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A male reader, planepocket United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

Can't you continue to date Him and dance in the club? Maybe He will choose to dance with you eventually if you do it enough to make Him lonely.

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