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writes:Agony Aunts!... I'm falling for my best friend but wondering if he feels the same... ??? :S Recently he has told me he loves me, he wants to be with me, and has said that we're getting closer and he's glad it's happening. But this was after a night out which we were both drunk. He admitted that he found talking about us was awkward and I agree it is, that's why I never bring it up. So we haven't mentioned it since (at least sober). It seems to be our nights out where we talk about our relationship. This happens every week we go out. Yes he's drunk, but still with it. I've been spending a lot more time with him recently. I've been sleeping at his. He seems to want to see me a lot more now. He really looks after me and treats me so well. He almost becomes a different person when it's just us two. We had a conversation the other night about sex which we never talk about. He asked what I though of penis sizes and if it would bother me. When I was in bed he put his head against mine which was almost quite romantic :) A boy text me the other night who is interested in me, he said 'you're not interested are you?' I replied no. My friend then gave me a kiss, a big hug and was pleased I said I wasn't interested. He said 'you're mine', 'my future wife'. I'm feeling like we're more than friends but not quite close enough to getting in a relationship. I'm really close to his family and is family are really wanting us to get together. He said he's glad his family think this. But still nothing :/What's going on here?....Thank you! :)
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (7 July 2012):
 I am also not necessarily sure that asking him point blank if he wants a relationship is the appropriate thing to do. It's obvious he wants a relationship...you're staying at his house, he takes care of you, etc. When he makes a move to get closer, you can make a move to get closer...this is how it works.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (7 July 2012):
What's going on? He likes you, you like him, chill out and see where it goes. You're already having intimate conversations with one another that you wouldn't have with anyone else. Do you really have to know to what degree you are in a relationship with someone? Do you really have to say right this minute that you are boyfriend and girlfriend or "in a relationship"? I don't really think so. Just enjoy being together. The more you're together, the more the relationship will grow. When you're falling in love you really don't have to ask what is going on. You already know what is going on, so just relax and enjoy it.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (6 July 2012):
 Calm yourself. The transition from friends to more is a tricky one and just as you're adjusting, so is he. Let him take things slowly, and talk to him when he's sober! Ask him what he thinks about you two, if he wants it to go anywhere but don't be pushy about it. It's obvious there's something more going on here, but to figure out what you'll have to ask him.
Best of luck! :)
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