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writes: My girlfriend cheated on me with my best-friend 3 days after she told me she was pregnant. Now they are living together. I want revenge, but i'm not going to jail. I don't know how to deal with it without getting my own back somehow. Please advise me before i do something incredibly stupid...
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reader, stella-confused/angry  +, writes (4 January 2010):
ok dont revenge them because you know your better than them 2 put together .Make sure first that it is NOT your baby then block them out completley get a new girlfriend and a new best friend let them be stupid and get each other upset while you are having an amazing part of your life .Do not be bothered if they end up happy 'cause you are the best and they are stupid and a lot of worse things than that . Make sure you are having a good time being the new you 2 people cant make you want to go on jail after all they are the ones who will suffer at the end so you GO AND ENJOY LIFE ALL THE WAY THROUGH THE END OF TIME. XXXX STELLA-CONFUSED/ANGRY
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): The best revenge you can ever get is living well for yourself and being successful. Think about it, your best friend is not really a friend at all because he slept with your ex while you were with her! Don't worry, she will leave him too, and is probably only with him because of the pregnancy. She is a terrible person to do that to you in the first place and deserves whatever is coming her way, and you don't have to do anything at all. Karma can be a b*****, so just go out and enjoy your life because these people are not worth the time to even think about! Good luck to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): do you have sexy or nude pictures or videos of her if so post them all over the internet along with her phone number home and cell and make copies of the pictures and videos and give copies to her friends and family mainly her mother
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): Why not sell your story to a national woman´s magazine and expose her? You can tell everyone what she is like then. I did, I sold the story about my cheating louse of an ex husband to a national woman´s magazine AND a national newspaper. I got paid for it to!! I used a company called www.frontpageagency.co.uk they were great. The end result was fab, my ex couldn´t go out of his or rather her house for weeks, the shame was so bad....Now I feel GREAT!!!! Take that Dereck, ha, ha, Revenge is sweet...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): Dont do it dude! Erase ALL telephone numbers and AVOID TEXTS!!! Burn too the 'ex box' (you know the one) Laws are in place to prosecute unwanted texts! What you send in good faith can be used as evidence of harrassment and PC Plod will happily throw the book at you.
Take comfort in that she will do it again, and be thankful that you were not married. You WILL meet someone else, you WILL start to feel better, you WILL find happiness. Believe me...I know it!!! You have your whole life ahead of you, and although it seems as you will never be happy again...you will. I am a 35yr old man and this happended to me in October 2006 so am speaking from personal raw emotion.
Good luck buddy
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reader, MagniModi +, writes (7 January 2007):
 Hey man. I'm going to play the devil's advocate and say just do it. If what you say is the whole truth and nothing but the truth, then do it. If you're an innocent bystander who can honestly say that you, to the best of your knowledge, did nothing to deserve the pain they've caused you, then I say GO FOR IT! Don't do it stupid though, ok? Revenge isn't going to make you happy, you're just giving them back exactly what they gave you. Sounds archaic, doesn't it? But it's all about release; the final middle finger before you turn your back and move on. Also, listen to 'Dazed and Confused' by Ledd Zepp. It'll help you to stay angry till it's done, then walk away smiling. Peace Brother.
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reader, DeeDoc  +, writes (7 January 2007):
 THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Oh darlin, the best way you can seek revenge is to live your life without them. Be happy, live, love and laugh. Do you honestly believe that these two will work out? Hummm...I don't think so. He already knows that she cheats. And who is this baby's daddy anyways? If it is yours, be the best daddy that you can be, because any fool can father a child, but being a good dad takes a loving heart, not a fools personality. Please do not do anything you will regret later on. Take time to cool off. My heart goes out to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): Best revenge you can do is walk away from the two of them with your head held high and dignity still intact!!! Getting your revenge on them means nothing only more heartache and trouble for everyone!!! Its not worth the time or hassle!!
My fiance done the same thing on me with my best friend and the thing that hurt them the most was that I just totally ignored them, blanked them out when ever I saw either of them out!! I know its gonna be hard but just don't lower yourself down to their level of deceit and game playing!!!
Life goes on and I think you are better off without either of them in your life if thats what they did to you!!
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reader, sweetiegirl  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 you need to realize NO-ONE is worth doing anything that would get you in any trouble. You just need to stop and think you will get over this and life will continue. you may think that doing something now is going to settle how you feel, but it will hurt you more in the long run. so please just stop and think, before you do something you will regret.
sweetie
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 January 2007):
 So your girlfriend cheated on you. What a bitch (pardon my French)!! And your best friend totally betrayed you. What a friggin' jerk.
Isn't it revenge enough to know that they'll only make each other miserable? Don't risk your own morals for two people that don't even deserve ANY of your time. Ugh.
One thing I also wanted to add - you didn't mention if your girlfriend is pregnant with YOUR baby or not. If it is your baby, I wouldn't suggest revenge because your (ex) girlfriend could make you out to be a big, bad monster in the future and use it as a reason to forbid you to see your son or daughter. Even though your girl did you wrong, don't bring your offspring into it. And, if your girlfriend is this much of a creep to everyone, I think your child will need you VERY much in the future.
If the child isn't yours, then let both of them go. Your best friend is a lousy friend and your girlfriend is no good. Let them make each other miserable.
Good luck, sweetness. It'll be hard, but grit your teeth and try to smile.
Get sweet revenge by making your life amazing, getting a new best friend and finding a great girl who treats you right.
xxIndia
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