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I lied about a past relationship and he'll end it if he finds out

Q.   So.. My boyfriend and I are great together. We get along, and are very much attached. One problem.. He asked me if I've ever been intimate with a black man. I lied and said no. (we are both white). I ask him what's the difference even if I had? He ...

A.   9 November 2014: Ask yourself if you really want to date someone who discriminates against other races. He's acting as if you are tainted if you did have sex with a black male. What a shame... (read in full...)

My g/f was wearing a shirt from a guy she slept with. Should I be upset?

Q.   My girlfriend was skyping me and I noticed her shirt. It was a verizon shirt, I work for verizon so I wondered where she got it from. I asked her and she replied from an old friend. After a little bit of digging turns out she slept with this person ...

A.   8 November 2014: Thanks guys I fixed things with my gf and I love her... (read in full...)

Why won't he pull out during sex?

Q.   So I have a boyfriend who's a pretty good guy. The only thing is, he doesn't want to pull out during sex. Or wear a condom. Says he hates them. We're both pretty stable so that's not a problem. My only question is, why does he do this? We both have ...

A.   6 November 2014: He seems pretty confused. You need to use contraceptives, either you or him. Something has to change before it's too late ... (read in full...)

Worried about girlfriends nightlife

Q.   Ok, my girlfriend is away at college for the past 3yrs and everything has been great. She goes out to drink once in a great while with her friends and I don't mind because I know her friends and they are good people. I myself hate drinking...

A.   4 November 2014: As a man you need to set certain expectations for your woman, and if she can't meet them then it is what it is. Don't settle, move on. But first present her with your expectations ... (read in full...)

My gut is telling me he's not faithful!

Q.   Lately, I've been rather doubtful of my fiancé's loyalty. I caught him liking other girls photo on facebook. And suddenly I get all jealous. He wasn't normally like this. For weeks My gut has been telling me that he's not faithful. He gets all ...

A.   4 November 2014: Facebook and social media isn't too important. If he's like various girls then it's just like a man looking at women in public. But if he's liking a lot of one persons pics then it's something you need to look into ... (read in full...)

I didn't tell my b/f about my past and he found out from someone else. Now he wants me out of his life!

Q.   I wanted to tell my new boyfriend about my past but did not know if i should tell him or that he would not want to know about my past or when was the best time to tell him and had thought about telling him as i know a guy that works for him that ...

A.   4 November 2014: You should've been open and upfront before hand, now it looks like you hid this from him. Trust is broken and you didn't give him the option to accept you for who you are in the beginning ... (read in full...)

Is it acceptable when my girlfriend invites over her male friend for a movie night alone at her place?

Q.   My 2 1\2 years long distance girlfriend told me today a male friend from college is going to watch a movie tomorrow night at her place so she can not see me on skype (we do it every night) she says that the time is not convinient to her (10 pm not ...

A.   4 November 2014: Not acceptable at all, she could go to a movie theater. No reason why a woman in a relationship should be in bed watching a movie with any man besides her boyfriend ... (read in full...)

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