His family are pressurising him. How long do I give him to make the big decision?
Q. I am a 25 year old with a 5 year old son who has been dating a 19 year old guy for 3 months. He is by far the best boyfriend I have ever had and makes me really happy. I am in love with him and I know he is in love with me. I have insecuri...
A. 11 October 2007: you should take it slow with him, try visiting his mum and talking to her, let her know how much you love and care for her son. Ask him to do the same, explain to his mum that he really loves you and wants to be with you. if this fails, talk to him, ... (read in full...)
Confess my feelings for a straight girl?
Q. Ok there is a girl a like, Im bisexual by the way. She has known this for a while now about 4 to 3 months she doesnt treat me any different and shes comfortable around me. She is single and when me and my mates did truth and dare she said she would ...
A. 11 October 2007: try and figure out how she would react, if she is a true friend she will understand but if you know she is straight, and she may take offence then think if it is worth risking your friendship over. telling someone something like this can affect a ... (read in full...)
I can't believe I cheated
Q. I cheated on my girlfriend... I love her so much... She is beautiful and really intelligent and has a great sense of humor... She takes care of me, makes me dinners, lunches, gives me back rubs, buys me random presents, pays for fuel for my car....
A. 11 October 2007: this is quite a tricky situation. I think before you do anything else, you need to try and figure out why you did this, if not there is always the possibilityh youn will do it again. I think you girlfriend deserves to know though, you were ... (read in full...)
Why did it hurt when it should feel good?
Q. My bf tried to enter me last night, but it didn't go in. It was so painful, i was quite wet so i dont know what the problem was [sorry if that was 2 graphic]. Why did it hurt, and why was it soo 'tight' ??? He even tried going slow, but it just hur...
A. 11 October 2007: You havn't said if you have done this before, or not. If you are a virgin, the first time is always painful to begin with, try using a lubricant and see if it helps, also if you are anxious this can also affect it. I find through my own experience ... (read in full...)
I thought maybe he called someone after dropping me home and spent a couple of hours with her, am I being paranoid?
Q. I saw my boyfriend on sunday---he slept till 12 noon. We went to his mom's house(he has his own place but sometimes stays there)..he drove me around 7. I call him at 11:15--no answer, i call again at 12--no answer..i text message him and then about ...
A. 5 June 2007: Only he can tell you that, it could be paranoia or it ould be fact. I think you need to talk to him about it, sneaking around could ruin your relationship and destroy all trust between you both. Ask him in a calm and polite manner, if he says no but ... (read in full...)
Please help, I've never kissed a boy before...
Q. Plz help!!! I've never kissed a boy before and he's my 1st boyfriend, how do i know if he wants 2 kiss me or not, plz help!!...
A. 1 June 2007: When the moment is right, you'll know.Dont worry about it, it'll just happen. If your worried about being a bad kisser just follow his lead. Every guy you kiss will kiss differently and have their own techniques so dont worry about it and just ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway you could help to me to make things in my sex life better for the both of us?
Q. I am 17 and just got married about 3 months ago after being with my now husband 3 years. I dont enjoy sex that much anymore and I am not for sure why. After about 3 months of dating him I lost intrest in sex altogether, I think I like it so much ...
A. 31 May 2007: Hi, my advice is to try different things, maybe experiment with different positions or even add a bit of role play to spice things up a bit. Talk to your husband and find out what he thinks about the situation, he may be able to give a bit of input ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?
Q. Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...
A. 31 May 2007: Try not to worry about it Most guys feel the same before their first time, the chances are that the girl will also be worried about something in her appearence, If you do get into a relationship, don't rush things, wait untill you feel confident and ... (read in full...)
Is college fun, is it too much work, or what?
Q. I want as many opinions as I can get so anyone who has something to say, even if it's just a little comment, please respond. I'm just wondering what people think of college. I will be graduating soon and I want to keep in contact with some of my ...
A. 31 May 2007: hi, im currently in college myself, yes it can be hard work but is also lots of fun. Just make sure you save time for yourself. The course im doing means im busy all week, three days in college and two days in a placement, i also work weekends which ... (read in full...)
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