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writes: I saw my boyfriend on sunday---he slept till 12 noon. We went to his mom's house(he has his own place but sometimes stays there)..he drove me around 7. I call him at 11:15--no answer, i call again at 12--no answer..i text message him and then about 15 minutes later he calls me saying he fell asleep downstairs and had his phone upstairs. I also know he had no clothes for the next day and needed to do laundry and he said he did not do it yet. To me-- I thought maybe he called someone after dropping me home and spent a couple of hours with her and then called me when he got home at 12:30...am i being paranoid? advice needed
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 Sounds like you might be being paranoid this is a man you are taking about ( no dig at men meant) but they do have a tendacy to fall asleep alot and they are not generally like us we like contact and they usually are not all that bothered, unless he gives you any other reason to doubt him i would not be all that concerned by it.
Take care.xx.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 June 2007):
 Why do you have that suspicion? Do you have cause to doubt him? He could very well be telling the truth, I've done that myself before. Has he gave you cause by his actions to doubt him before? How long have you been together? Has he EVER cheated on you before?
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reader, XAlisonX +, writes (5 June 2007):
 Only he can tell you that, it could be paranoia or it ould be fact. I think you need to talk to him about it, sneaking around could ruin your relationship and destroy all trust between you both. Ask him in a calm and polite manner, if he says no but you still get suspicions, try asking around, people that know him and see if they know anything. Hope this helps you, message me if you'd like to talk. good luck xxx
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