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I worry about how my boyfriend will cope when I am no longer around

Q.   Hi everybody, I have been dating a guy for 6 years and 3 months now,my first boyfriend,my first kiss,my first in many ways..we understand each other,there are at times where I don't have to say anything as to why I'm upset and he would just hug me a...

A.   20 October 2012: You should talk to him and tell him how you feel you are already pretty stressed and you don't want to get even more worked up... I say just tell him how you feel. Its the only way forward. Hope this helps xxxx... (read in full...)

He tried to kiss me but I refused, he's apologised but should I see him again?

Q.   I started to talk to a really nice lad on on fb I no him from around the village, I met up with him at about 2 in the morning with one of my other friends, and he tried to kiss me, however I felt really awkward and refused. He said 'sorry for being ...

A.   17 October 2012: I didn't put this question... I think it may have been my cousin but I just wanted to say It wasn't me cause I don't want a bad reputation x x x... (read in full...)

How can I put him at ease?

Q.   So I have a lot of history with this guy at school. We go four years back, but I have had a crush on him way longer. It got awkward and even though we never went out we kissed. I haven't been in his class for five years and now the sets have bee...

A.   10 September 2012: You should try to calm him down, maybe throw in a compliment but not to obviously then he should feel more comfortable around you and definitely know you like him, ask him questions and make him feel part of the conversation, knock him by 'accident' ... (read in full...)

How can I put him at ease?

Q.   So I have a lot of history with this guy at school. We go four years back, but I have had a crush on him way longer. It got awkward and even though we never went out we kissed. I haven't been in his class for five years and now the sets have bee...

A.   10 September 2012: You should try to calm him down, maybe throw in a compliment but not to obviously then he should feel more comfortable around you and definitely know you like him, ask him questions and make him feel part of the conversation, knock him by 'accident' ... (read in full...)

He used me and I hate him, so why can't I get over him?

Q.   Can someone explain to me why I can't get over someone even though he used me? We're the same age but I was still naive. Basically I fancied him, and he knew. He asked out one of my closest friends, and being a good friend she asked itf it was okay. ...

A.   7 September 2012: You can't date a lad just cos of their family but he does sound like a real dick! If he used you tell him how you feel try and get him alone and tell him you don't like the way he treated you, get your best friend to as well. If you do it in public ... (read in full...)

She's 15 and pregnant!

Q.   I found out something. I'm not supposed to know, or to tell anyone, so i need to vent somewhere. Theres this girl in my grade. She's 15, and has a reputation of sleeping with a lot of guys, smoking pot, drinking, and i think she's done some drugs. ...

A.   3 July 2012: It's good that you haven't told anyone, but if you are really worried about her (and the baby's) future, tell someone. Maybe your mum or dad or even a sibling. Maybe try and talk to her in private, explaining that you are worried. Just think she ... (read in full...)

I'm confused is he shy or just not interested in me?

Q.   I seen this guy on friday night who used to be in my college class and i do have a crush on him, i seen him stare at me as my friend and I past him to walk to the bar. As my friend and I were chatting i seen him getting closer to us but he didnt say ...

A.   2 July 2012: Boys aren't mind readers, you should explain to him that you like him, and make a move. If you don't you may never know if he likes you... Try and find out what he is interested in and talk to him. Maybe he doesn't know what to say.... (read in full...)

I have a crush on him. Yet always he is IN a relationship. But he Does know I like him.

Q.   I have a crush on this guy in my year. He knows I like him, but I don't know if he likes me. Since I told him, he doesn't act weird. I can never talk to him about it because he is always in a relationship. What do I do?...

A.   2 July 2012: Thanks Guys x x x... (read in full...)

Five months? Is it too soon to say to her, 'i love you'?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and i want to tell her i'm in love with her but i'm afraid it may be too soon as 5 months isn't a huge amount of time. I have had feelings for her for a couple of years now as we have been close flir...

A.   1 July 2012: If you love her, she deserves to know about it, but you have to be certain. you don't want to say I love you, then break up with her a week later.... (read in full...)

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