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I think my 15 year old son was looking at my porn collection, how do I approach him?

Q.   i believe my 15 yr old son has been looking at my few porn dvd collections which i kept well away from view in my room. i saw they ave been disturbed and one found under d bed where it should not be(maybe left in a hurry)I ave now gotten rid of a...

A.   19 December 2007: sir, im a 20 year old male that looked at my dads porn. when my dad found out, personally he did it the right way. he asked me one day while we were fishing man to man. little he knew i was lookin at porn at age 11. your sons growin up, 15 was a ve... (read in full...)

He flirts with me then goes cold, how do I know if he really likes me?

Q.   I'm 13 years old and I'm a girl. This boy who I hardely know, Flirts with me. He's also 13. Lately hes been talking dirty and saying hey. He hasent bugged me for 3 days almost. What does it mean if he hasent bugged me for 3 days?...

A.   19 December 2007: number 1. hes waiting to see how you react to how hes talkin to you. if you talk dirty back. well you prolly know where his mind is. if you like him or think you do. see what he has to offer, but watch out he sounds like hes a little bit of a perv. ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my girlfriend to bring us closer but she wants to wait

Q.   Hi there. Im a 17year old virgin. Well... ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. I love her so much but i wanna feel so much more. And we were discussing sex. And she says shes going to wait til she gets married. I heard sex takes your ...

A.   6 July 2007: just wait. if you let her run that part of the relationship it will come. your only 17. believe me im 19 and i tried to force a little on my last girlfriend that i loved to death and we are no longer together now. and when you get older you realize ... (read in full...)

I want my ex back; should I contact her or wait to see if she'll contact me?

Q.   I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend (we dated for roughly six months) for 15 days now. Afew weeks before the breakup, she backpacked in Europe with a girlfriend of hers, and stated she felt a sense of independence upon returning. She ...

A.   6 July 2007: this happened to me 6 months ago. i tried to get her back but instead i pushed her away for good. i regret doing it because i stil love her. my best advice is to let her go for a while and then in a few months if she is still single make an ... (read in full...)

Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?

Q.   Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?...

A.   14 April 2007: when my ex girlfriend broke up with me she did it in person. it still was hard but doing it face to face makes you look less weak. and it makes it easier to get over, because all questions can get out all at once. it will hurt either way. ... (read in full...)

How do I go about asking my ex girlfriend out again?

Q.   how do i go in asking my ex girlfriend out again?...

A.   4 March 2007: she broke up with me because she didnt want to have a long distant relationship when she went to college. we dated seroiusly for 2 months and weve been broken up for 4 weeks now. and i tried to let her go but i cant, my feelings are too deep for me ... (read in full...)

She broke up with me and I did nothing wrong! What will I do?

Q.   Things were fine with us until one day she came to me asking me to break up with her. I disagree cos i did nothing. She came back the folowing day broke up with me because of what she heard about me but i still love her very much. Please what s...

A.   8 February 2007: this happened to me a week ago. what you need to do is confront her and ask her why she didnt want to be with you anymore. ask her. What made her loose the feeling for you so quickly, is there someone else? love just doesnt vanish into thin air. ... (read in full...)

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