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I want sex and my boyfriend doesn't. He doesn't seem to understand how I feel.

Q.   I am in a bind and feel as though I am starting not to cope with things. I feel stupid writing this but the problem is I just want sex and my boyfriend doesn't. I can deal with that for a few days but beyond that it just makes me feel so down and ...

A.   12 November 2008: I hope you're still following this... I'm in the same position as you, I also get sad when after a few nights of sharing the same bed we haven't had sex. I have tried doing things for myself to get rid of the frustration, but it doesn't help much ... (read in full...)

I'm a normal teenage girl, but I need to get out. Should I move or runaway?

Q.   I'm a not a normal teenaged girl....I'm on the honour roll at school, I've never had a detention, I've never done drugs or drank alcohol, I do my chores when I'm told to, I watch my three younger siblings, which includes getting them ready for ...

A.   12 November 2008: Have you tried talking to your mother about your situation? If he is the only money coming into the family I can see the problem, and if your mother is truly powerless when it comes to leaving him, then I'd maybe consider running away. But, you ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure who the father is... what do I do in this sticky situation?

Q.   I recently had a little boy by c section...my problem is im not sure who his father is. I slept with two guys around the time he was conceived and they both know this. Now one of them is staying with me and helping me raise the baby. He signed ...

A.   12 November 2008: There is only one way you will have peace of mind and that's with a paternity test. One other point though I'd like to make is that a father isn't just the biological father, it's the man who raises the child and fulfills the father role. If he ... (read in full...)

He doesn't need to use a condom, how can we find a compromise?!

Q.   Hi aunts, I need some ideas from you. My partner of 6 months and I enjoy what we think is a healthy sex life. I am on the pill and take it between 6.30 and 7am every morning (rain, hail or shine). The problem is, my partner insists on putti...

A.   12 November 2008: Well, first things, when taken correctly the pill actually has the highest success rate in preventing pregnancies of any contraception. Secondly, stuff comes out before a guy actually cums, so it's lucky you're on the pill as well, because the way ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for me to be scared about my first time?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have decided that we are ready to take it to the next level and i love and trust him 100% but i'm really nervous and scared. he has been with two other girls and this will make my first time. Is it normal for me to be scared?...

A.   12 November 2008: Well it's something new so that can be scary no matter it is. But it is important that you feel ready, and that you're not just doing it because you think you should feel ready, or because you know your boyfriend wants it. If he really loves you, he ... (read in full...)

We are engaged, getting married and have much sex, is this a problem?

Q.   is it wrong for a me and my bf have sex like 2 times a day? we just got engaged and are getting married after uni we were meant to be together and lately our sex life is out of control we do it inbetween classes and after are there any consiquences ...

A.   12 November 2008: Absolutely none... You're two adults in love doing things that make you feel good (while exercising at the same time) all I can say is I'm jealous. ... (read in full...)

I am a young, married woman and love having sex, my husband wants it once a month, how do I change this?

Q.   I am a young wife, just 22 and am married to my husband, 29 for over a year and a half. My husband and I have a good marriage except for one little detail: we only have sex just once a month if that. I am a nympho and my husband knew that when we ...

A.   12 November 2008: Ugh I know exactly how you feel. I'm 22 also, and living with my 28 year old boyfriend, and to be honest, I don't think there has ever been a time when I think I would have said no to sex. We've been together over a year and had our ups and downs, ... (read in full...)

We are living together, he has cheated and impregnated another woman, I still love him, I am hurt, what do I do?

Q.   I've been with my daughter on and off for about 5 yrs... I moved out of our apt due to issues that we had... he has never wanted me to move on and vice versa... though not officially together we still were together... I knew that I needed my ...

A.   12 November 2008: You sound incredibly distressed in that message and that alone makes me think you need to start moving away from someone who is upsetting you this much. The only other option is for you to resolve things between the two of you, which means you will ... (read in full...)

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