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Happy to use sex toys... but what are they, exactly?

Q.   My bf keeps asking me if I want to use sex toys and I think that's fine. But I'm not quite sure what they are. What are sex toys? What are some examples of them? Thank you for your time x x (I think this site is great!)...

A.   26 February 2006: ASK JEEVES... (read in full...)

My bf is in the army and I miss him so much. Do army relationships work?

Q.   My boyfriend is in the army, i miss him loads, dont know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two months and he is in the army, i barely see him, only every other weekend, he told me he loves me already i'm not sure to believe this as ...

A.   25 February 2006: My stepdaughter has an army man who has just left for afg. It is difficult for any of us to understand the fears in a soldiers mind before he has to face the risks he is about to take.Support him keep in touch as much as you can.And when he come... (read in full...)

It feels like we're each waiting for the other to say "It's over"

Q.   Hello, I met my bf on the internet. We chatted for a year and then texted for ages and then we met about 4 times a week. Each time I'd go over to Ireland or he'd go over to England, where I was living. I moved over in May 2005 and still in Ireland ...

A.   25 February 2006: I think you have the answer already,you just have to pluck up the courage to say bye bye. ... (read in full...)

I need someone to talk to about my problems...without involving friends and family. What can I do?

Q.   I need some sound advice on how to make myself feel better! I have no one to talk to, and my parents are so narrow minded they think of things too seriously, and only in ways to benefit themselves. I need to chat to someone about my problems and ...

A.   25 February 2006: Look in your local Telephone book for help lines. There are a lot out there. It is easier to talk when you can`t see the person onthe other end. They might not give you the right answers but it helps to get things off your chest. good luck... (read in full...)

He says "I love you" at the strangest times...

Q.   I have a problem. My current boyfriend of 10 months has been saying "I love you" for about a week now, but at real random times. Like the first time was when I was in the shower and he was brushing his teeth. He said "Babe?" and I said "yeah" over ...

A.   25 February 2006: Us men find it difficult to say straight to a womans face all the romantic things they like to hear. He probably does it at times when he does`nt feel embarrassed and when you can`t stare at him for too long. We are only boys playing at being men.... (read in full...)

Is it possible to be "best friends" after a breakup? How?

Q.   My girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me and she still wants to keep me as her best friend. She is dating someone else and I still love her. What should I do?...

A.   25 February 2006: Time to move on, If you still love this girl and she is with another, then you need to find a new partner yourself. I have been in a similar situ it took me 2 years to get over her ,but now i have a wonderful new wife i met when i was`nt even ... (read in full...)

My husband won't stop his affair. He even tells me that they're still in touch!

Q.   I have been married almost three years and just found out the end of November that my husband had a sexual affair with a ex girlfriend. It should also be noted that we dated before getting married since high school and he left me once before for ...

A.   25 February 2006: Honey, Take legal advice or ask this man to move out for a while until he makes his mind up. If you find he is still seeing her after a few weeks and refuses to change file for divorce. It is Called adultery and is only making you unhappy, lifes too ... (read in full...)

Since the breakup, my ex has gone a bit freaky. What are his feelings and how do I move on?

Q.   How do you get over someone who says his feelings for you haven't changed (i.e., he's still more in love than he's ever been), but he can't date you anymore, for other reasons? Especially when you have to see him every day? It's been 7 weeks sin...

A.   25 February 2006: Ask yourself is this what you want everyday of your life. A relationship is supposed to be give and take not one person dictating to the other. If you did get back together, by the sound of it your life would be ruled by a bit of a control friek. ... (read in full...)

Once a cheat always a cheat?

Q.   is the saying once a cheat always a cheat true?...

A.   25 February 2006: The question is once a person cheats on another, how can they ever be trusted again. If they say they are at the supermarket how do you know this is true. Losing the trust is the hardest part. Can you live with someone not knowing if they will do it ... (read in full...)

How long before we should get physical?

Q.   This question is a bit like asking how long a piece of string is? How long is usual these days to make a man wait before kissing, cuddling, sex occurs? Been seeing a guy for 2 months. He is lovely but I get the feeling he is losing interest...

A.   25 February 2006: A lack of communication can confuse both parties. Time to sit down and talk to each other about what you are both looking for. It might be time to try the first kiss. It will either keen up his interest or chase him away, but at least it will stop ... (read in full...)

He's 14 years younger, but our kids are a similar age... Am I too old for him?

Q.   Hi, I am going through a divorce and getting strong body language from the single neighbor guy that he likes me. Well, I just found out that he's only 33 and I'm 47! The problem is that I really like him a lot too! Am I too old for him, and wha...

A.   25 February 2006: Slow down my love ,if you are not yet divorced ask yourself do you want to come out of the frying pan into the fire. If your younger admirer is serious then make him prove this to you. Get know him better first, organise a social event with other ... (read in full...)

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