I'm unhappy with my in-laws. What should I do?
Q. I have tried getting along with my in-laws but I cant. I hate them to be very honest. They show favoritism between our children and it is ruining our marriage. I love my husband but he doesn't seem to see anything wrong with what they are doing. ...
A. 9 November 2007: I say move. What's better than a little distance? Is your husband ok with moving? Really though ... a little distance can be a great thing. Otherwise, I would let my husband know, which you have, and then I would protect myself accordingly. I ... (read in full...)
Is my ex being unneccessarily awkward or is he hiding his emotions?
Q. Am I being the immature one? My ex and I recently got our security deposit back from our apartment - actually, it came to me, but in both of our names. THat means that we both have to sign the check in order to get it cashed. Anyway, we hav...
A. 9 November 2007: I would deposit the check (just write "for deposit only" on the back) and write him a check and mail him his half. He obviously isn't ready to see you. Better to just take care of it, but you don't have to do it "his way". Just a thought!... (read in full...)
Vengeful ex-boss is potentially ruining my career.
Q. I live in a USA territory. I quit this terrible six month job a year and a half ago because of a very disrespectful and verbal abusive woman boss, who called herself christian by the way. She felt so rejected when I quit the job she promised me she ...
A. 9 November 2007: I say include the job on your resume. The worst that can happen is that they don't consider you, which is happening now. So, include the job. Furthermore, the liability of giving you a bad reference is really on the company. Companies have to be ... (read in full...)
Should I end my current relationship and hook up with the new girl?
Q. I've been in a relationship just over a year now, it's a rocky relationship at best and more then once has nearly ended but that's not the problem..... A few weeks ago I went back to college and I met this other girl in college. We haven’t slept...
A. 9 November 2007: I say give it a shot. I'm one to believe that you can either end up living with someone that you "can live with" or living with someone that you "can't live without". To be "forever", you have to really respect each other deeply. Doesn't sound ... (read in full...)
Is anyone out there any good with a Crystal Ball?
Q. I feel genuine love for someone, and I mean genuine. What should I do? The age gap isn't huge (about 8 years). I'm good mates with this person and the last thing I wanna do is screw that up, but I wish I could just find the courage to tell them my ...
A. 9 November 2007: So, I'm thinking ... are you a cuddly person with this guy? Try it one night when you are together. Start being touchy-feely ... flirt ... to me, this seems the best way to see if he responds without stepping so far out that you might loose ... (read in full...)
He still has feelings for his ex girlfriend.
Q. what is going on here.... so I was with this guy for about 2 months, i really liked him, infact I havn't felt this way about some-one for a very long time. However as great as I thought he was, it turned out he was still sleeping with his ex girl...
A. 9 November 2007: Girl, you need to run and run like hell. You have to establish your worth with him. How you react to this will define how he will treat you later. If you go back to him and compete with his feelings for his exgirlfriend (which obviously still ... (read in full...)
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