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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Am I being the immature one? My ex and I recently got our security deposit back from our apartment - actually, it came to me, but in both of our names. THat means that we both have to sign the check in order to get it cashed.Anyway, we haven't spoken in like 2 months, so I reached out to him to see how he wanted to deal with this. Basically, he told me to mail it to him. I think it's a major hassel - I am going to be within 10min. of his office tomorrow between 12pm and 2pm - clearly around lunch time when he could easily walk out, sign the check and walk back in. But he REFUSES to see me! And, when I offered an even simpler solution, he goes "I dont' agree with that. Mail it, I will sign it and mail it back. Not difficult".Is it me or is he the one making this a bit difficult?
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reader, uhuh...right +, writes (9 November 2007):
I would deposit the check (just write "for deposit only" on the back) and write him a check and mail him his half. He obviously isn't ready to see you. Better to just take care of it, but you don't have to do it "his way". Just a thought!
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reader, greatest love  +, writes (8 November 2007):
wow, that is a tough one...he must have taken the break up pretty hard...maybe seeing you would open up a wound that he is trying to make heal...only time can help this can situation...maybe you can find someone you can trust to bring the check to him to sign...by the way he's acting he's showing how he feels, and no you're not acting immature...he's just not ready to face you at this time.
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