Son's girlfriend cheated, now his whole outlook on life has changed.
Q. I need help really badly. My son he has been down for the last year or so. He had a girlfriend who he loved a lot. He did things for this for this girl that were super romantic and she reciprocated. I liked her. 5 years later,, and I repeat my son ...
A. 28 December 2010: All that I wanted to say has already been said. As a parent myself, my heart goes out to you. Let him deal with the hurt in his own way. Be there for him. He is more than welcome to hurt girls if he wants but this will not bring him any jo... (read in full...)
He's still flirting with girls on FB and texting even after just moving in with me?
Q. I recently started dealing with my old high school boyfriend again. So far so good. But I have a minor problem. He spent the holidays with me and he's still here. He only leaves to go to work or go home to get clean clothes. But I noticed he's ...
A. 28 December 2010: Shoot straight from the hip and ask him point blank what is going on between the two of you. His answer will determine your course of action. My immediate thinking is that he cannot be texting and Facebooking while you are in full view of thi... (read in full...)
What is the meaning behind his gift?
Q. Hey, I'd love some advice on the meaning of a gift I received for xmas from my bf of 4 months, please. We said we'd get each other little gifts, but he bought me a beautiful sapphire necklace :) I'm not sure what this means (he hasn't ever told me ...
A. 28 December 2010: Don't read too much into the necklace. Take it for what it is (a sapphire necklace) and enjoy it as such. Then sit back and watch what unfolds going forth. As for gift ideas, buy him what feels right to you. You need not match the price of his... (read in full...)
My selfish girlfriend
Q. What do you if you are on a relationship with a selfish woman? She thinks everything revolves around her. I love her dearly but I have been holding back on getting engaged because of this issue? Is it possible that with time and cpmmunication she ...
A. 28 December 2010: The one thing that I have learnt about getting married is the same thing I learnt about having a baby: it doubles your joy if you are already happy and it quadruples your sorrows if you already have cracks in your relationship. No marriage, n... (read in full...)
He cheated, I mentioned divorce and now he wants another chance
Q. Hi I am married for 11 yrs and my husband cheated.I gave him 2nd chance but he decided to leave again. After 6 months he came back and wants another chance. I told him about divorce and suddenly he wants another chance. What is yr advice???...
A. 28 December 2010: I am in the same boat as you. My husband cheated on me 2 weeks after we got married and I gave him another chance. It has barely been 8 months later and he is treating me like dirt, going out with his friends on date nights and not doing a single ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to avoid your ex?
Q. Is it wrong to avoid social situations where you ex, and her bf will be at the expense of your own happiness?...
A. 28 December 2010: Yes, yes, absolutely yes! Ever heard of "ignorance is bliss"? Well, I cannot find an expression that is more fitting to your situation. Experts will agree with me when I say that the less contact you have with your ex, the faster you will ... (read in full...)
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