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My parents want me to break up with my boyfriend..

Q.   First, i am 15 and he is 16. anyway, my parents have been talking to me lately about breaking up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for over a year! they want me to start dating other people because they think that's its unhealthy for someone my ...

A.   16 February 2012: 9/10 times? Don't you think you deserve a guy that treats you nicely 10/10 times? Generally, if parents don't like your boyfriend, there is always a reason, and if they don't think he's treating right, most likely he isn't. Reexamine your ... (read in full...)

Career or women?!

Q.   I'm about one third of the way through a one year postgraduate degree in science, and I'm really down about it at this stage. I only chose science initially for university because I was in a bad place at the end of high school and despite my real ...

A.   20 January 2012: "Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors where there were only walls." I completely, completely, completely understand the whole English and potential instability versus Science and complete stability. It's a tough decision because... (read in full...)

Why all of a sudden did she stop texting?

Q.   I have been texting this girl for the past four days, we've been texting back and forth always having something to say, just seem to get along really great and have banter! Then yesterday I texted her and she hasn't replied, in fact it's nearly been ...

A.   20 January 2012: This exact same thing happened to me. I had been texting this boy for a week and then he didn't text me for four days. I finally decided to stop wondering and just text him and see what was up. I didn't ask him why he never texted back, I just ... (read in full...)

My feelings are so strong that I have trouble dating other girls but she only want to be friends

Q.   So there's this girl that's pretty much my bestest friend. The fun we can have together is un-freaking believable, and I love her to death. A little while back we were kinda poking at the idea of being a little more than friends. She admitted to me ...

A.   20 January 2012: I have been in a similar situation and honestly, the best thing you can do is push your feelings away and ignore them. This probably wasn't what you were hoping hear, but you can't make someone like you. It seems that the two of you have a really ... (read in full...)

How do I win her back?

Q.   Recently me and my girlfriend broke up (both 20 years old). The past 2 months were stressful and pressuring on us, as we moved house twice over Christmas and new year. Since september, we've seen each other 24/7 (after being rendered jobless) and ...

A.   20 January 2012: As another female, I know that I would be thoroughly impressed if a man put the effort in to cook me a romantic meal (even if you can't cook! I don't think any woman could turn down ramen if the table was set with candles and roses). It may seem a ... (read in full...)

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