My BF thinks my friend's a slut and doesn't want me hanging out with her.
Q. One of my oldest friends asked me to hang out this afternoon. I haven't seen her in a while, so I was excited to see her. However, I know my boyfriend doesn't like me hanging out with her. We're both very insecure people, let me elaborate. The ...
A. 4 February 2010: your bf sounds like my husband, spiteful and immature. unfortunately ive succumbed to his maddness. now i have no friends that i see and my life consists of him and our family. i am severly unhappy. i advise you to keep your friends and dont let ... (read in full...)
Smoking verses drinking
Q. Hi, I'm not sure if im being reasonable or selfish Here my husband is an alcoholic and our marriage is on the rocks, He has managed to drink less than before but alcohol is still an issue that will tear us apart. Every time he has one drink it...
A. 10 January 2010: thank you for taking the time to reply. i would like u to know that i do not smoke in our home or around him. he smokes on occasion and i had quit for 3 years before he and i got together. it was acctually he who influenced me to smoke again. i ... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
A. 7 November 2009: i went to a meeting tonight, it wasn't great the only people there were the meeting instructor and myself. there were some good points, but mostly i got to hear how all the druggies and alcoholics he bumped into died, including his wife. very ... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
A. 6 November 2009: i"m still torn, because he isn't drinking like he used to. he used to consume at least a half liter of whiskey daily. he doesn't drink nearly as much, so he has made progress. but when he does drink he's mean an has a bad attitude over everything ... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
A. 6 November 2009: the situation is heart breaking because it's like a roller coaster. he tells me he wants to stop drinking, for us, but then after a few days sober he finds another way to get high and expects me to be ok with this. If i get upset, he threatens to ... (read in full...)
Is my husbad using porn as a weapon? Is he a heartless jerk?
Q. when my husband and i started out, i was ok with watching porn as a couple and i let him know that. porn wasn't a problem for me until our sex life turned downhill and i found the underside of our bed peppered with porn! now porn is an issue bc now ...
A. 26 October 2009: how can i be direct with out coming across as challenging. my husband gets very defensive,and although he considers himself direct, he lacks an understanding of the difference between aggresive and direct. ... (read in full...)
Is my husbad using porn as a weapon? Is he a heartless jerk?
Q. when my husband and i started out, i was ok with watching porn as a couple and i let him know that. porn wasn't a problem for me until our sex life turned downhill and i found the underside of our bed peppered with porn! now porn is an issue bc now ...
A. 26 October 2009: he can be insensitive at times, but i wouldn,t jump to divorce just yet. he is a great step father to my children, he does the majority of the cooking, when times are good we are the couple that most women envy; laughing, holding hands, oblivious to ... (read in full...)
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