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He didnt get me a birthday present, am I just being used?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 months. A few weeks ago he moved away for work for 3 months. It was my birthday last week and he sent me nothing. Yes he rang a few times on the day and sent a few texts...its not like he forgot. I asked him ...

A.   28 January 2010: In life the little things ell you the biggest things. For example the way a person who treats the little people, like door staff, waiters or waitresses tells you their true personality. There are many games that go on, but not to acknowledge y... (read in full...)

What is it she wants from me?

Q.   Hi, I have a question. My ex-girlfriend had contacted me through facebook out of the blue. We haven't spoke in good terms for about 9 months. When she contacted me, I read on her facebook that she is arguing with a guy and told him that she just ...

A.   28 July 2009: to be honest, ive suffered from the same not through facebook but in direct terms my relationship ended 18 months ago, she was cheating. i walked away. now i remained civil. she was odd. what im getting at, i have found she continually draws me in ... (read in full...)

My wife cheated with a 72 year old man. What do I do?

Q.   I'm 28, my wife's 26. We have a 5-year-old son. Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she'd been having an affair with a 72-year-old man and that it was basically just sex for her, and that the...

A.   8 April 2009: My advice.. very simple and thats how you have to view it. Your wife had the affair, these things happen for one reason or another, some people are selfish in their actions, others find themselves in an emotional whirlwind at a point where it happ... (read in full...)

She loves mebut needs indepence and to find herself

Q.   Hi all, I have been searching for answers for the past 4 days. On monday night, it is saturday night now, my girlfriend called me and told me she basically needed a break. We are in college about an hour apart-- over the weekend she got sick and had ...

A.   1 March 2009: Hmmmmm... With women its test, test, test. You mention things where you say she has got upset like the song in the car. Don't beat yourself up over littel things like this. Remember woman want a man, and at the moment your behaving lie a girl ... (read in full...)

How should I behave around her at work when she gives me such mixed behavior?

Q.   I was seeing a girl I work with for two years. I found out but chance she was up to something with another guy from work. I ask no questions and walk away. This happened in January 08. Weeks later I had tears saying it was all a mess I help but ask ...

A.   24 September 2008: to the unknown female.. thanks for the insight,, i also believe this is the case. I am trying to keep out of it act neutral if you like. She is now blowing hot and cold one day a full smile the next half a smile with that im sorry feel to it !!!!! ... (read in full...)

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