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... Send *ipster a private message | | | *ipster's profile:I've been in a relationship or two (or 20). I've broken hearts and had my heart broken. I've had my share of uninhibited single life, I'm no saint, and I've got a f**king crazy story for every story. Currently, I am happily living with my beautiful girlfriend of 1 year, but I still fight the temptations and urges just like everyone else. I'm completely open minded and love to meet new people.
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I am a bit perturbed by the fact that she chose to share a flat with one her mates and another guy (male). Am I being petty?
Q. Dear cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 years now, due to various reasons we cant quite cohabit now, and she needs to move into the city where I live coz she has to finish off her last credits at UNI (where she lived on Uni campus for the p...
A. 11 July 2007: No need to worry just yet mate I had a similar issue with my girlfriend. She needed to rent out the extra room in her house and decided to let a guy friend move in. I was a little fearful of this at first, thinking it would probably be convenien... (read in full...)
A part of me wants full disclosure about her prior relationships but I don't how to approach it.
Q. I've been in a relationship with a great woman for the past two years. We're both in our early 30's. Having been in several relationships, I know she is the one for me. We are compatible in so many ways. We spend a lot nights together staying...
A. 11 July 2007: hmmmm, tricky As you pointed out, maybe her bisexual experience is something that was pure curiosity and she's not comfortable sharing with you. Maybe it was just a one night drunken freak show in her past. From experience, sometimes fu... (read in full...)
How can I talk to her without all these feelings returning?
Q. Hi, well here goes, hoping for some sound advice to lead me in the right direction. Will try and keep this as short as possible... My best friend for the past 5 years is/was a work colleague called Julie. I'm married, she's in a long term relation...
A. 11 July 2007: Actually man, you've done the right thing by abandoning the close friendship. You were headed down a bumpy road that would have eventually lead to cheating. Having an "emotional friend" can be similar to having an affair, because your turning your ... (read in full...)
She offered me a threesome, but I'd rather sleep with her one-on-one...
Q. Hi, I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. I'm a male guy who has a female friend who is going out with my mate, however tonight I was talking to her online and she asked me to have a threesome with her (she is bisexual) so I said to her I prefer ...
A. 11 July 2007: wow, sounds rough. We've got a name for guys look you around my town, "Lucky Bastards" Sounds like the girl is into you and not your mate. If you don't want to step on his toes than ask him before you proceed, he might not even care. Good lu... (read in full...)
I told her how I feel, but she wants to stay with the guy who's using her for sex! So now I want to have a talk with him about what he's doing to her!
Q. Ok so theres this girl 'L' and she was being messed around by one of my best friends 'P' she thinks she loves him, i think she infatuated, and she was coming to me for advice and I helped her out as best I could, but last week having been with this ...
A. 11 July 2007: ahhhh you've been stuck in the 'friend zone', Noooooo
Unfortunately, and girls on here may not agree with me on this, but L is actually attracted by the fact that P is playing her. He's a challenge and you are the nice guy whom she could easily h... (read in full...)
I thought I was gay, but now I like a guy
Q. Basically, Back 7 years ago I came out as a lesbian, as i really fell for this girl. In my head i was sure i was gay because I never felt attracted to men (Which i think was because of some incidentsi had at a much younger age) ...It was only 2 ...
A. 10 July 2007: Your just discovering another part of your sexual identity. Maybe you've never met a man with his qualities and now your attracted. It sounds to me like you don't fit into a category of straight or gay, and you don't have to.
Your vibe toward h... (read in full...)
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