A
female
age
41-50,
*amara
writes:Basically, Back 7 years ago I came out as a lesbian, as i really fell for this girl. In my head i was sure i was gay because I never felt attracted to men (Which i think was because of some incidentsi had at a much younger age) ...It was only 2 years ago I started to become really attracted to men but did nothing about it because they all think I am gay. trouble is, I have become so atracted to this one guy at work in particular, when we are away on the road with work, we spend a lot of time together, we are learning a lot about each other, but he doesn't talk about his partner and I am not sure if he is separated from her or not but I am too scared to ask. He only ever talks about his kids, but I am not sure if he enjoys spending time with me because he thinks I am gay.... I can not stop thinking about him. worse still, I have another six weeks off work, And I am physically being ill from not being able to see him much....
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reader, Tipster  +, writes (10 July 2007):
Your just discovering another part of your sexual identity. Maybe you've never met a man with his qualities and now your attracted. It sounds to me like you don't fit into a category of straight or gay, and you don't have to.
Your vibe toward him will clue him in that your interested, trust me, guys know these things.
Don't try to fit into a box, life is much more enjoyable!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): well if you are attracted to someone then thats it. you are. you don't need to be gay or straight. you love who you love and thats it. find out his situation and move on from there
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Hey babe, you need to ask him, is he has a partner, then maybe go out with him for a drink ( if hes single ) and then slowly drop it into the conversation you may not be gay and then see how he feels.. Hope i could help, mail me if you want to talk x x x
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