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| | *inybutnotfangless's profile:Nothing qualifies me to help anyone. Helping people is relative to the issue and whether by chance, my words worked for that person. Plus, many people can be super sensitive to even the mildest of remarks, blowing things out of proportion. While others can be super insensitive and undermine the importance of certain issues and the feelings of people.
So in short, I'm a cat and I enjoy cheese burgers. Thanks, I would like curly fries with that and some grey poupon. Also, if you would be so kind to give me a glass of white cranberry juice with ice, that would be lovely. I see you have a special on martini today. Unfortunately, no more alcohol for me. What sort of cat drinks martini anyway, nya? |
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I've been thinking about unfriending these awful former co-workers on social media, except for one. Any advice?
Q. I used to work in a not so nice place. The boss' where horrivle to staff, the working conditions were poor and the staff as lovely as they seemed the vast majority where extremely bitchy. I worked predominately with 2 other girls. They were lovely...
A. 10 October 2014: If this is just a matter of feeling uncomfortable about ejecting people from your social media portals, then you can just create a different social media profile and add only the people you want, without worrying who you're going to piss off. ... (read in full...)
How do I let him know he needs to step up as a man and woo me?
Q. BIG DILEMMA. My LDR boyfriend who has been chatting me up non-stop everyday is coming to visit me next month. His plans according to him is to hopefully meet my parents, discuss his plans to relocate and scout around my town for business and futu...
A. 10 October 2014: The thing with long distance relationships/romance is that it is unorthodox. What normally people can do on a day to day, to week basis on dates and dinners, we cannot do in LDRs. So we need to rely on will power, massive consideration, compromise ... (read in full...)
Sometimes my boyfriend is a mean drunk!
Q. My boyfriend is lovely 99% of the time but sometimes when hes drunk he can be mean. Not everytime but about 50% of the time that hes drunk he will say things as a joke but i think he means it. An example being at the weekend he said i had a fat ...
A. 10 October 2014: Being drunk, people may do things out of their usual character. It's not something people can normally control. Otherwise, it wouldn't be called "being drunk" right? If his "Doctor Jekyll/Mr Hyde" only happens when he's drunk, even if it's half the ... (read in full...)
How do I let him know he needs to step up as a man and woo me?
Q. BIG DILEMMA. My LDR boyfriend who has been chatting me up non-stop everyday is coming to visit me next month. His plans according to him is to hopefully meet my parents, discuss his plans to relocate and scout around my town for business and futu...
A. 10 October 2014: I think at this point, you're over thinking things. I don't know you, but if it was me or my wife, both of us would have done what we each felt needed to be done and just get on with the trip. My motto in many things in life is: choose the path of ... (read in full...)
My fiancé has a past of the 'down low' lifestyle, should I believe him that he no longer wants sex with men?
Q. If my boyfriend/fiancé has had a past life style of having sex with men can it be possible that he's no longer into that lifestyle since being in the relationship he has with me? This is what he claims is that it's over that past life style and he ...
A. 8 October 2014: If he is bisexual, then he cannot just suddenly not be attracted to other men, but you see, this isn't even a problem to begin with. If he has chosen you to be his partner for the rest of his life, then it is not the matter of whether he is still ... (read in full...)
Sometimes my boyfriend is a mean drunk!
Q. My boyfriend is lovely 99% of the time but sometimes when hes drunk he can be mean. Not everytime but about 50% of the time that hes drunk he will say things as a joke but i think he means it. An example being at the weekend he said i had a fat ...
A. 8 October 2014: 99% of the time, he's a lovely, but the real question is, how often does he get drunk? From the sound of your inquiry, it looks like he gets drunk often enough to bother you enough to post your question here. So again, how often does he really get ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her if she wants a relationship, or just be friends?
Q. I'm divorced for 5 years. I'm looking for a relationship. I have a friend, a woman I've known for 15 years. I met her when our kids were going to school together. We've been dating, going out to dinner having drinks for about a year now, but she ...
A. 8 October 2014: I understand that experience and being openly communicative comes down to the bonds between people, which is not something easily observed and dissected by outsiders, so I can only offer you what I would do in your situation. If I were you, I woul... (read in full...)
How do I let him know he needs to step up as a man and woo me?
Q. BIG DILEMMA. My LDR boyfriend who has been chatting me up non-stop everyday is coming to visit me next month. His plans according to him is to hopefully meet my parents, discuss his plans to relocate and scout around my town for business and futu...
A. 8 October 2014: He isn't just purchasing a ticket to go see you. He is making plans to move there and start up a new life with you there. The only thing you have to do is show him around. Often times, individuals in a relationship need not only look at the imme... (read in full...)
I am starting to wonder if he will ever propose!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I am watching everyone I know get engaged, married and have children and I am starting to wonder whether he will ever propose. I want a family life with children, so I cannot accept a life without ...
A. 8 October 2014: Many people assume that men should know when and how to make marriage proposals, but no one really just knows. Also, the length of time in a relationship is not a good measurement of when a person should get married. Instead, the measurement has to ... (read in full...)
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