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Hiya,

i like giving people advice, but sometimes i need it myself lol. my way of doing it is thinking of the way i would do it if i was in their shoes. I explain whats going on. eg, if they're friends are ignoring them, and then work out a way to fix it. i hope you dont find this geeky. i find giving advice really cool. it gives you a good feeling and most the time i no how to deal with it myself.

hope this and i help you xxx

I know he got me a hideous present for Christmas!

Q.   I know what my husband got me for Christmas (he left it on his dresser) and it is hideous earring that I wouldn't be caught dead in. Should I hint to him that I hate gold jewelry, or hearts with hopes that he will return it for another gift, or ...

A.   20 December 2006: obviosuly, if its gold your husbands probably spent quite a bit of money on this present. but this is what i would do "hey i seen some earrings in our room, they look really nice, not something i would wear though. are they for you mum/sist... (read in full...)

My ex wrote me a love letter, took me out, kissed me, and asked me out again but still wants to be alone! What's his deal??

Q.   yes me again!!! Im the one whose boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago saying he loved me and I was perfect but he needed to be on his own !!! WEll the latest is I recieved a letter from him today saying how sorry he was and listing all the wonderful ...

A.   20 December 2006: lads are from mars! sounds like this lad had feelings for you when they broke up. most of the time, its something you can get when you break you. i call it a 'flash back' because you start having feelings for the person you broke up with. i had a ... (read in full...)

How do I divide Christmas time with my family and new partner?

Q.   I broke up with my partner just before Christmas last year and spend Xmas with my sister, her partner and his family. They are nice people to be sure...but I don't have a connection to them really. I have just met someone but feel it is too soon to ...

A.   20 December 2006: if your meeting someone new, chances are, you'll be staying awhile, but its not fair to leave your family out. make a schedule were you pop in to your family to give presents and wish merry christmas in the morning and then go to your new partners ... (read in full...)

I like my friend, but he likes someone else - and he keeps telling me about her!! I'm so jealous! What can I do?

Q.   Ok so here is my problem: I feel rejected. My best friend who I like more keeps talking about how he likes this other girl, whom im pretty sure likes him back. He knows i like him too...but its like he doesnt care. I feel like hes being a insesnit...

A.   19 December 2006: explain to your friend what is going on. if he's your mate he should take it ok, but you never no with boys... dont be scared, most girls can control there jealously and let it pass. but obviously you cant, so you definetley need to tell him. Say ... (read in full...)

I want her back, but I think she likes somebody else. Help me out please.

Q.   I need help please im only young but recently my girlfreind broke up with me beacause i think we were shy with each other and were taking it slowly but i really really want her back but i tghink she likes somebody else but im not sure and i dont ...

A.   14 December 2006: try talking to her, thats what i no i'd like a lad to do. bring her something and say 'look im sorry it was a huge mistake you're really special i thought we were just to shy, and i didnt say nothning about you. im so sorry.' and see how it goes ... (read in full...)

I'm crazy about her, but I don't have the courage to ask her out. What should I do?

Q.   I am a 14 year old male. I have fancied this girl for absoloutely ages. I think about her all the time but I can never pluck up the courage to ask her myself. I haven't even got the confidence to ask my friend to ask them. I keep trying to leave ...

A.   14 December 2006: this is completely normal, but this girl isn't going to wait for ever! try praticing what to say in the mirror, if its easier ask her out by phone or instant message, though it can be more awakward when you see them. maybe if you try flirting with ... (read in full...)

Can't face the thought of returning to England, my cheating ex and his new girl, and all my ex-friends!

Q.   When I started college in England last year I met an boy and we were together for about 9 months. We are in all the same classes and made a lot of the same friends. Then he started cheating on me with a girl also in all our classes and then they got ...

A.   14 December 2006: What that lad did was wrong, and he knows that. Your 'friends' that went on his side, arent your true friends, and they probably never were if they did that. So though its the hard truth its time 2 get over it. If you want to go back to England you ... (read in full...)

I'm 13, started my periods but I think my body is too small for tampons!

Q.   I started my period, the next one is due next week and im really worried. i cant wear towels, im 13 but my pant size is very small and the towels are sticking out of them. they irrate me and go up my butt its digusting! I want to try tampons but i ...

A.   11 December 2006: oh and i dont speak 2 my mum so its sorta of a problems... (read in full...)

We split but I can;t get over him! Will it always be this way?

Q.   I split up with the father of my son who is nearly nine five years ago and still havent got over him. I get jealous if he gets a new girlfriend and get abusive and text him and ring him and make a scene. My life is just waiting for him to ring why ...

A.   11 December 2006: Time is a great healer, but in your case it doesn't seem to be working. Just try to think more postive and look to the future there's always plenty more fish in the sea. If you're not ready for a lad yet, give it time, you'll naturally get over him ... (read in full...)

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