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I feel like she cheated, but she didn't. I can't get over her past actions. Help!

Q.   I hope someone can help me. I feel like I’ve been played, and I’m not sure how to deal with it. I reunited with an old female friend on facebook, and we started out as friends. She was telling me about her relationship problems with her current bf, ...

A.   26 July 2010: she is wasting your valuble time and exposing you to emotional pain and STDs. Get out there and date...she is keeping you around as a back up and realized she was going to have to put out to keep you around, but lied to get around your rules. Think ... (read in full...)

Lovers or just friends?

Q.   I met a guy at work. The pair of us work at a daycare camp for kids. He and I had a conversation that really changed my mind about me. I'm unsure if he likes me or is just being friendly. He's a country boy and said I'm a pretty lady. Also at the ...

A.   26 July 2010: people don't try to spend more time with people they don't like.... (read in full...)

I feel there is no humanly possible way to keep her satisfied and help her!

Q.   Hello, I am new to this site and joined it because well, I feel like I no longer have anyone else. I can't talk to anyone about how I feel or what is going on in my life. Especially my love life. I have been going out this this girl for about a ...

A.   13 July 2010: This is what leads me to believe that this is an exploitative relaitionship. " But half way through she dug up some dirt from my past and it made things completely different." once she found something to leverage she used that to get wh... (read in full...)

I feel there is no humanly possible way to keep her satisfied and help her!

Q.   Hello, I am new to this site and joined it because well, I feel like I no longer have anyone else. I can't talk to anyone about how I feel or what is going on in my life. Especially my love life. I have been going out this this girl for about a ...

A.   13 July 2010: Break up with her, she is a vampire. Some one who loves you would not do this to you. Seriously cut her off. God forbid you end up with a kid with her. You could try the friendship route but I think we both know that wouldn't work. You will be ... (read in full...)

I have to follow my heart and be with my love but I have a husband!

Q.   I am married to a fantastic man and 2 beautiful children. My husband has been working alot, we are trying to save money to buy a house so we are in a rental now and it seems this is the hardest time for us. It is like we just co-exist in the same ...

A.   12 July 2010: Grimm reality that was awesome! Another thing you may want to consider is what the heck your husband and father of your children has done to deserve this kind of backstabbing?... (read in full...)

He refuses to take my calls, is angry and uspet, but won't give my stuff back! Why?

Q.   Hi all, I have been in a relationship for around six weeks with a lovely guy. Alot has happened during that time- and I have met his parents and been on holiday with him.he came on very strong, and his mother told me that he is in love with me. An...

A.   12 July 2010: I read this and I just want to say for the record, as a guy, that is some stupid shit right there. You are lucky to get away from this guy... I hope he did get your hope up , you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. It really nev... (read in full...)

Men, would this turn you on?

Q.   Here's a question for the male readers. You're at a bar by yourself one night, listening to a band and a woman comes up to you who is not really that great looking; short hair, big hips, kind of flat chested, has alot of tattoos and she walks up to ...

A.   12 July 2010:  Not because the woman you describe isn't attractive,or because the situation/fantasy isn't a turn on, it would be an invasion of personal space out of the blue with no lead in so I could see jumping. Now if you made some opening gambit, ... (read in full...)

For all of those people that have obvious flaws, how did you find your mate?

Q.   Hey guys, I am 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. I have wonderful personality, I'm intelligent, educated, I love new things, having fun, and I am decent in terms of looks; I have a nice body, cute face...the blatant flaw is, unfortunately my...

A.   12 July 2010: same issue here... I have not lived alone though. You will meet someone and they will love you. I always planned to fix them but then i find myself in a relaitionship and it seems like a waste of money since I am happy. I think you will find tha... (read in full...)

I'm scared. Should I tell someone what happened?

Q.   so i was at my friends house the other night. it was around 1:30 am or sometihng close to that time when i fell asleep on her couch. her brother and her cousin where in her brothers room when i passed out. i woke up at around 2:30 to the feeling of ...

A.   12 July 2010: I joined to add something that I am surprised no one mentioned. Next time you find yourself in a situation like this SCREAM! LOUD! and fight/ flee to safety. Do not let fear paralyse you. From my understanding one of the primary lessons of women... (read in full...)

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