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... Send *elf32 a private message | | | *elf32's profile:Hello there. I'm a gay guy living in the centre of the UK. In my circle of friends, I was always the one they came running to when problems occured. But now, it seems, most of my friends have grown up and settled down so my services aren't needed so much - so I sought out this website.
Having "been there, got the t-shirt" with my 'gay-ness', I reckon I can offer sound advice to anyone who needs it!
I'm in a sound stable relationship which has tough to achieve, so can certainly offer some advice around the pitfalls there and after dropping so right clangers*, can certainly tell people the WRONG way to go about it :-)
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God, my parents and me... Who comes first?
Q. I have a conflict in values with my parents who are very religious, whereas i am not. Please advice....
A. 7 August 2007: It depends what you quandary relates to, but my thoughts are:-
You come first. Your parents second. God third.
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I told my best friend that I have a crush on him and he said "well I'm not gay...what do you want me to do?" What do I do?
Q. I have a problem!!...well I'm gay and I am madddly in love with my best friend...I've been knowing him since 05 and I've always had a little crush on him...when we got to sophmore year...we started hanging out every weekday...and thus we became best ...
A. 7 August 2007: Been there mate! Hard as it sounds, you have to accept that he has a different sexual preference to you and you have to back off. There will be plenty of other gay teens that you'll get to meet and hopefully you'll then realise that it was just a ... (read in full...)
I'm bi and in love with my friend, but she is with someone.
Q. hi i am bisexual and i am in love with my friend, the thing is she is with someone of three months, so why the hell would she cheat on her girlfriend with me? she has known i have liked her for 2 months, and a close friend of ours found out b...
A. 7 August 2007: three months may not be that serious - but would you really want to go out with someone who is a cheater? my advice is to back off from your friend and let her get on with her relationship. Your friendship is probably of much more value. In time, ... (read in full...)
I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies...
Q. I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies. My friend Adam is straight to the best of my knowledge, as well. Anyways, we ended up taking E together. First, we ended up making out. By the end of the night, we were naked, in bed, and ...
A. 7 August 2007: I think the answer here is simple. Talk to him about it. Start with an open question such as "remember the other night - how wierd was that". And just gauge his response. If its posiitive, suggest you do it again (but leave out the "E"). If his ... (read in full...)
I snogged my best mate - and we liked it!
Q. hiya, im a little worrried as i snogged my best mate, also a male, and we liked it, we both have girlfriends and are scared this may ruin out friendship! please help!...
A. 7 August 2007: These things happen. There are many people who've been in your situation. Don't let it worry you. If you both want to do it again, then there is no harm in exploring any feelings you have - it's perfectly normal for people to explore their ... (read in full...)
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