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*atalie-ann
writes:hi i am bisexual and i am in love with my friend, the thing is she is with someone of three months, so why the hell would she cheat on her girlfriend with me? she has known i have liked her for 2 months, and a close friend of ours found out becuase she told her and she also mentioned she had mixed feelings for me. this was only a month agowhen we are together on our own she acts like she does like me as when we are with her girlfriend only not as much becuase it to noticable. it tearing me apart i literally think about her none stop at work, when i open my eyes until i close them when i aint with her its just constantly her its its really getting to me. people seem to think we are together when we go out and they also seem to think that shes no intrested in her girlfriend. so the question is...does she like me? please help me do something before it gets worse thanks all much apprieciated xXxXxXx
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reader, natalie-ann +, writes (7 August 2007):
natalie-ann is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni understand what everyone is saying.. but her and her girlfriend constantly argue and are ment to be getting engaged.. her girlfriend is going uni in a few weeks and were ment to be engaged a few weeks ago. but they argue all the time over the slightest thing.. ive known her for about 2 yrs but only been close for the past 6 months we have never had an arguement.. we constantly flirt take this for example:lets call her H,playing pool: i say " did u just see that shot?" h says " no i was more interested in your clevage"then i sat down she lent over my legs to take a shot so i sed hmm nice.. she said you want a lap dance.. i said yh.. she said well i would but i cant lap dance but if i cud what do i get in return? i said a lap dance or i take you to bed.. she said hmm ill take the second one. she knows i like her as i said before but a month ago she said she had mixed feelings for me to a friend.. even though she has been with her girlfriend for 3 months and when i confessed all she asked me why i didnt say anything before she got with her new girlfriend i said i didnt want to be your rebound from your previous relatioinship... so it hurts its like theres nothing i can do and it feels like someone has stabbed me in the chest nd twisted the knife i dont know what to do in a sense i see her as my world becuase she is everything i want what do i do?
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reader, telf32 +, writes (7 August 2007):
 three months may not be that serious - but would you really want to go out with someone who is a cheater? my advice is to back off from your friend and let her get on with her relationship. Your friendship is probably of much more value. In time, if things dont change, maybe think again about asking her out - but if things go wrong you'll lose a lover and a best friend.
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reader, penta  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Someone who cheats WITH you will cheat ON you. If you care for your friend stop tempting her and find someone else.
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reader, Han +, writes (6 August 2007):
hey erm this has happened 2 me ive been goin out with sum1 for 2 years and she cheated on me with my best mateif i were u id think bwt how her girlfriends gna feel?however if the girl u lyk sez she lyks u go 4 it if not then 4get it she obv loves her g.f
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