Partner has a loan which will take 4 years to pay off. I'm having second thoughts
Q. Hi not sure if I am being silly here but need advice so I can make up my mind about something but I have since discovered that my partner of 1.5 years is paying off a nearly £18,000 loan which will take about 4 years to pay off and was shocked to be ...
A. 9 November 2011: No not jealous at all of her but she treats her Dad like dirt just like his ex wife did.I have tried to tell him gently not to accept the way she treats him so no not jealous just concerned as there is nothing to be jealous of. I have a daughter the ... (read in full...)
Partner has a loan which will take 4 years to pay off. I'm having second thoughts
Q. Hi not sure if I am being silly here but need advice so I can make up my mind about something but I have since discovered that my partner of 1.5 years is paying off a nearly £18,000 loan which will take about 4 years to pay off and was shocked to be ...
A. 8 November 2011: Thank you for your response.Apparently his ex wife started the loan years ago and he is left paying it and will not ask for her share of money to pay it...and apparently his daughter has always had a thousand pounds spent on her at Christmas time ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with insecurities stemming from past relationships?
Q. Please can someone tell me how to deal with bad insecurities with my current partner which I think stems from my previous two relationships? Thanks...
A. 17 August 2011: My ex husband was drunk and abusive towards me for many years till I got out the relationship.my ex fiancée I discovered was chatting to women on the internet telling they were sexy looking ect and now am with my current partner I am constantly ... (read in full...)
His daughter is a selfish brat and I'm running out of patience!
Q. Hi I have been with my partner for over a year.He has a 17 year old daughter who is controlling.About a month ago when they had an argument she told him that she hates where she stays and wants to stay with her Mum who was the bad one in my ...
A. 7 August 2011: Yes I have asked and he is getting counselling for it. His daughter has been spoilt since she was little and is expecting everything even though she is 17.His counsellor even told him that she needs to learn too and to stop demanding as she has to ... (read in full...)
His daughter is a selfish brat and I'm running out of patience!
Q. Hi I have been with my partner for over a year.He has a 17 year old daughter who is controlling.About a month ago when they had an argument she told him that she hates where she stays and wants to stay with her Mum who was the bad one in my ...
A. 6 August 2011: But that is just it he can't make decisions as he is too scared that he will upset her and that is why I am trying to help him. However I have taken all advice on board and now going to step back and let them get on with it but not sure if I will ... (read in full...)
His daughter is a selfish brat and I'm running out of patience!
Q. Hi I have been with my partner for over a year.He has a 17 year old daughter who is controlling.About a month ago when they had an argument she told him that she hates where she stays and wants to stay with her Mum who was the bad one in my ...
A. 5 August 2011: Sorry but I have been misread here entirely.....I am not jealous of her at all and I am not trying to make him decide between the two of us....no way as I have a 17 year old also...my partner and I do not live together either. What I am trying to ... (read in full...)
This is a rocky relationship. What should I do?
Q. Hi I am 43 years old and my partner is 48. Tonight we had an argument and I am wondering if we should break up for good? He openly admitted tonight that he chats and flirts with other women but is only interested in me cos he loves me...I am a very ...
A. 21 April 2011: No we didn't but he was here this morning for a bit,at first it was polite chat then we got speking about an incident that happened that has affected us also. Not sure if you can click on my name to see my latest post which you will see what it is ... (read in full...)
This is a rocky relationship. What should I do?
Q. Hi I am 43 years old and my partner is 48. Tonight we had an argument and I am wondering if we should break up for good? He openly admitted tonight that he chats and flirts with other women but is only interested in me cos he loves me...I am a very ...
A. 20 April 2011: He just left ten mins ago after arriving 5 mins before that then his daughter phoned to say that she wanted a lift home!!! So that was that and it was his birthday today!!
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Anyone know of chat sat badoo?
Q. Does anyone know the chat site called BADOO?? I need advice about it to see if my partner is telling me the truth or not. Thanks x...
A. 20 April 2011: Last night I received an email from them so to stop them I went on it to attempt to delete my profile yet again.I knew that my partner used to use it and he said that he also deleted his...I checked an old mail that I had sent him and it showed that ... (read in full...)
Anyone know of chat sat badoo?
Q. Does anyone know the chat site called BADOO?? I need advice about it to see if my partner is telling me the truth or not. Thanks x...
A. 20 April 2011: I know what the site is and have been on it but I need something confirmed.... (read in full...)
This is a rocky relationship. What should I do?
Q. Hi I am 43 years old and my partner is 48. Tonight we had an argument and I am wondering if we should break up for good? He openly admitted tonight that he chats and flirts with other women but is only interested in me cos he loves me...I am a very ...
A. 20 April 2011: Well he is coming over tonight and I don't know what my decision is yet or what I am going to do so see how it goes x... (read in full...)
This is a rocky relationship. What should I do?
Q. Hi I am 43 years old and my partner is 48. Tonight we had an argument and I am wondering if we should break up for good? He openly admitted tonight that he chats and flirts with other women but is only interested in me cos he loves me...I am a very ...
A. 20 April 2011: Thanks for your reply. Yes I am very insecure due to my marriage of 14 years was partly filled with drink,verbal,physical and mental abuse. Then I had another relationship..we got engaged but with him he put me down all the time especially the way I ... (read in full...)
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