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*eardrop3
writes: Please can someone tell me how to deal with bad insecurities with my current partner which I think stems from my previous two relationships? Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, teardrop3 +, writes (17 August 2011):
teardrop3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy ex husband was drunk and abusive towards me for many years till I got out the relationship.my ex fiancée I discovered was chatting to women on the internet telling they were sexy looking ect and now am with my current partner I am constantly worrying if he is "up to anything".He once had a lot of young blonde women on his Facebook profile as well as other young women and I was not happy with that so he deleted them and keptd the ones he really knows.When he adds yet another female when he knows what I am like it really upsets me and because of me I think he doesn't go on Facebook often but I am trying to understand why I get like this...I wish I could be normal in a relationship and stop being so scared that he might hurt or be using me too...this is on my mind 24/7 just about and I am getting tired of it all and I know that he is too as he more or less said so...can anybody help or will I have to finish with him for the sake of sanity?
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (10 August 2011):
What are the insecurities? Without knowing this we really cant help you!
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