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More submissive then he is Dominant?

Q.   Im a submissive into the BDSM lifestyle and ive been with my Dominant/boyfriend for over a year now. My problem is, he's not Dominant enough for me. i know hes young, (25) but i just never see/feel him trying to become a better Dominant. Ive re...

A.   25 December 2009: Well, the thing is, he advertised himself on a dating website (geared towards BDSM life stylers) as a Dominant. so was it false advertising?... (read in full...)

She wants me to do things in bed that I disagree with

Q.   Ok I have a major problem. I have been dating this new girl for 3 months now. I have always been known as the sweet guy and I am very repsectful towards women. The thing is my girlfreidn is kinda kiny when it coems to sex. Which I think is fun but ...

A.   24 December 2009: ive kinda had the same problem. My boyfriend had asked me to spit on his thing while i was going down on him, but i just couldint spit on him. i viewed it as really disrespectful. I did try, ended up not being able too, so i voiced my opinion about ... (read in full...)

We get on so well! But there are some problems..

Q.   Hello, I started dating a guy about a year ago. Things went well until he had a problem with ED. He told me he only ended up sleeping with the women that he married. His first marriage lasted 3 years (she ended up deciding to be gay). Hi seco...

A.   24 December 2009: I know its hard, but why should you have to put yourself through hell just to jump through his hoops and fit yourself to his problems? Theyre his problems, and if he dosint have the strength to sort them out himself, then how dare he string you ... (read in full...)

I can't handle getting treated with no respect, I could use some advice on how to fix that!

Q.   hey there i have a problem with my bf. he can be the biggest sweet heart ever but then sometimes its like he doesnt care, i wanted to think its because he is a guy and they like there space and i kinda think he acts this way because of that but i do...

A.   24 December 2009: Some guys gain respect for you if youre strong enough to make tough decision rather then letting yourself wallow in the situations they've put you in. i recently was very unhappy in my relationship with my boyfriend of a year because i felt like i ... (read in full...)

Should I invest everything for this girl or have a back up plan?

Q.   okay..so i have fallen madly in love with this other girl on the internet. im 20 and she is 17. from the first chat,things just flowed and its gotten to a ridiculously sweet level that it scares me! we havent talked on the phone yet as she lives far ...

A.   24 December 2009: Not to be a downer, but its from my experience, that usually, long-distance/internet relationships rarely work out. Either due to idealizing what the person really is like, or the fact that you've never delt with them in real life 24/7 so you don't ... (read in full...)

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