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writes:hey therei have a problem with my bf. he can be the biggest sweet heart ever but then sometimes its like he doesnt care, i wanted to think its because he is a guy and they like there space and i kinda think he acts this way because of that but i dont think thats the whole reason. i talked to a few of my friends and they think he acts rude and not respectful all the time becuse he knows i dont ever want to loose him so he thinks he dont have to try and be the best bf because he knows i love him to much to ever loose him. i have tried to sit down and talk with him about it and he says he dont try to be like that he says he just is who he is sometimes and doesnt really notice a differince idk what to do if you could just give me some edvice on how to handle this with out loosing him that would be great cuz i cant really handle getting treated with no respect Reply to this Question
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reader, lif3sucks +, writes (24 December 2009):
lif3sucks is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks i just really dont want to lose him and i do admit i am clingy ill back off a little :D keep in touch
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reader, Tyrannosaurusgoose +, writes (24 December 2009):
i don't think you need to worry about it too much. You just might be sorta clingy- guys hate that. just give him some space when he is acting rude. just be like well fine if you don't want to talk to me then i'm going to go to the movies with my friend______. give him some time to hang out with his guy friends. if he doesn't think is is being rude or anything he just might be kinda shy. make him feel like he doesn't need to change anything. make him feel like he is perfect.and yea guys are like that- they need their space and are hard to figure out. you're not the only one baffled.
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reader, tatsuko +, writes (24 December 2009):
Some guys gain respect for you if youre strong enough to make tough decision rather then letting yourself wallow in the situations they've put you in. i recently was very unhappy in my relationship with my boyfriend of a year because i felt like i was doing more in the relationship then he was. and he was taking advantage of all i did for him. So i bucked up and said that i would have to take away a lot of what i did for him and that he would have to earn it back. Afterwards, he said he respected me more because i looked out for my own well being and made a tough decision even though i knew it would hurt both of us, but be better for the relationship in the long run. hope this helps some. ^^
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