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Wife fantasized about her friend and our sex was great!

Q.   Im a 28 yearold man married for 4years and to put it nicely, my sex life has not been what u would call active. i recently found out that my attraction for her has not been returned as much as i would want. i guess im not all that attractive a ...

A.   22 April 2009: If you feel jealous or upset about how excited she was about it then I suggest you don't bring this guy up again in the bedroom. Repeatedly roleplaying yourself as another guy that your wife actually has the hots for is a dangerous situation. If it ... (read in full...)

Question for men: Does porn get you off or is it a fantasy that you would like to act out for real?

Q.   I'd like to ask any men out there,if you get off on something on porn movies does this mean it is a fantasy that you would like to act out for real??? My partner of 7 years has been watching porn ,but 95% of it was anal sex!I decided to ask him if t...

A.   22 April 2009: Yeah, that's kind of weird. What I think is happening here is that he is getting off to not the man performing anal sex, but the fact that the girl is receiving it. This probably is viewed as a very taboo or extrememly dirty or possibly even ... (read in full...)

Do women get more turned on by men taking the lead in the bedroom?

Q.   I think the title says it all really, but is it true? Provided us men do the right thing and ask what the woman wants obviously, is it hotter and more of a turn on for women when men take control and lead when it comes to sex?...

A.   22 April 2009: The majority of women like to feel the man take control of the situation in the bedroom. It makes them feel desired and women find a man much more sexy when he displays confidence by taking the lead. Don't get me wrong, this doesn't mean that when ... (read in full...)

She runs to her ex whenever we argue

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now. She will not stop talking to her ex-husband, via text, phone calls, him popping in at my house. I have told her its understandable because they have children that they communicate, but I ...

A.   22 April 2009: That's f'd up man. You need to tell her exactly how you feel about the situation. Tell her that you are aware of her communication with him during your fights and that that kind of behavior is unacceptable (it's borderline cheating actually). You ... (read in full...)

How can I make her stop hating me?

Q.   I'm 15 and I like this girl a lot, but the problem is she hates me, plain and simple. What can I do to make her not hate me. I'm not that bad of a person, I'm kind and considerate, I even write poetry about her, I haven't shown her my work and I ...

A.   22 April 2009: How could you possibly like a girl that treats you that way?? The fact is she is young and naive to the rest of the world (outside of high school). She is taking advantage of being pretty by disrespecting all of the guys that like her that she ... (read in full...)

Was I wrong for being mad at him?

Q.   well me and him have been together for 2 weeks. i reallllllllllllly like him. everything was perfect. but he started talking to my ex best friend i trusted him so didnt say anything. but she asked him "am i hot" and he said yes but dont tell j...

A.   20 April 2009: I'd say give him one more chance. But this time set conditions. Tell him if he starts contacting your friend again, then you guys are through for good! Don't hold what he said about your friend against him, though. So he thinks your friend is hot.... (read in full...)

How to tell if someone is interested or if just as FWB?

Q.   I'm a separated female, went on a few dates over 5 months with a man that is separated. Slept with him 2nd date. How to tell if interested or if just interested in friends with benefits?...

A.   20 April 2009: Very simple. ASK HIM!!! Guys will tell you what they want...whether it's just sex or something more and possibly a relationship. If he's being contradictory in his answers, beware of the smoke and mirror tricks!! It's a classic case of the "wel... (read in full...)

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