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writes:I'd like to ask any men out there,if you get off on something on porn movies does this mean it is a fantasy that you would like to act out for real???My partner of 7 years has been watching porn ,but 95% of it was anal sex!I decided to ask him if this is something he wanted us to experiment with as i want us both to be totally satisfied in our sexual relationship (We have a brilliant relationship in all areas), and he said he has no interest in acting this out!I am wondering if this is something he really doesn't want to act out at all,or if it is just that he doesn't want to do it with me in particular??Please some advice would really help!!Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you t-wett!I think this is what he was trying to explain to me himself but couldn't put the words together!!Thank you very much :)
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reader, t-wett  +, writes (22 April 2009):
Yeah, that's kind of weird. What I think is happening here is that he is getting off to not the man performing anal sex, but the fact that the girl is receiving it. This probably is viewed as a very taboo or extrememly dirty or possibly even degrading act and is enjoying the fact that these girls are dirty enough to do it. He probably has rejected doing anal with you because he holds you to a higher standard than the porn stars he watches and doesen't want to perform a dirty or degrading act on you because he loves you and respects you. I always thought the pornos that show the cum shots on the woman's face to be very hot, but I would never do that to my girlfriend because I think it's extrememly degrading and I don't think of her as a dirty, sleazy whore...same kind of thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): My partner enjoys watching 'she-males' and transexuals and things..and he's very secure about his sexuality (heterosexual relationship)..he masturbates over them, and he says that it is sexy (as your partner may find the anal sex thing sexy to watch) but like my partner, maybe he's just inquisitive about how its done, expressions on peoples faces, etc and not interested in acting it out. I wouldnt worry about it as mean as you have offered it to him and he has declined. Good Luck With It xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): It is erotic to watch other people having sex, doesnt necessarily mean that I want to do what they are doing.
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reader, imtaylor78 +, writes (21 April 2009):
 he most likely just loves the way it looks and the reactions the women have. Some people like to look but the thought of putting their penis in the poop shoot doesnt really do it for them lol
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reader, imtaylor78 +, writes (21 April 2009):
it really depends on the person...when i watch porn im mainly just looking for what i think looks the hotest and imagine that im in it...and with most of it i do want to try...well.if i find something i havnt done yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you!!What i don't understand still is if he is watching so much porn concentrated on anal then he must like it especailly as he is masterbating to it!?!?I'm so confused and really want to understand.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): The thought of anal sex doesn't do anything at all for me personally, but obviously there are people out there that enjoy it, both male and female. I certainly wouldn't like to act it out - to my mind the anus was designed as an exit rather than an entrance and as far as I'm concerned has just one purpose.
If he's told you he doesn't want to act it out I don't think you have any cause to disbelieve him. If he wanted to do it and you've offered him the chance I'm sure he'd take you up on it. But he hasn't, so you can be fairly sure he doesn't fancy the idea.
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