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writes:I think the title says it all really, but is it true? Provided us men do the right thing and ask what the woman wants obviously, is it hotter and more of a turn on for women when men take control and lead when it comes to sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, t-wett  +, writes (22 April 2009):
The majority of women like to feel the man take control of the situation in the bedroom. It makes them feel desired and women find a man much more sexy when he displays confidence by taking the lead. Don't get me wrong, this doesn't mean that when its time for the action, it's his way or the highway...or that girls don't get wet off of pouncing on a man every now and then. But the average girl likes the man to initiate and take control (to an extent) when initiating and engaging in sex. It's extrememly similiar to asking if women prefer men to make the first move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Every person is different. You could ask the individual woman you are with at the time. In fact you could ask them everything about what they like. It's good when someone listens to you. Of course there will be women who are turned on by that, but you can't generalise.
Thank God there are some men who CARE what women want!!!
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reader, yahora +, writes (21 April 2009):
"a man in charge" has been portrayed in movies and everywhere else for a long time. I think this may be the mayoral link to thinking that its the hotter way to go, but I find taking control once in a while hotter than being submissive.my sis is right here next to me and she says she finds it better when she's in charge... So all in all I guess it depends on the individual.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (21 April 2009):
 Well this is all down to personal taste - some women like the man to take the lead whereas other women like to dominate the man and have her way with him!
I personally perfer to man to take the lead, it turns me on much more than if I were to take the lead. All women like to feel desired and sexy; and this is how they will feel if the man takes the lead, because the man is showing how much he wants that woman.
I would say that in most relationships, it is normal for the man to take the lead at the start of the relationship and then when you both get to know each other (sexually) a bit better, the woman will get more confident and then things may change a little in the bedroom. Sex is all about personal taste and boundaries - some people are more adventurous than others etc.
So I would say that at first then yes, women like the man to take the lead. Once you get to know each other better and know exactly how to please each other in the bedroom then things can be changed depending on what you both want & like!
I hope this helps!
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