We are both 16, and all we want to do is cuddle in my bed, my parents absolutely won't allow it, how do I get them to understand that we are not going to have sex, we only want to hold each other?
Q. im 16 and my gf is the same we want to cuddle in my bed but my parents wont even let her set foot in my room do u have any advice on how i can convince them dat we will jus be cudlin and not goin to have sex...
A. 14 August 2008: first of all i met my boyfriend when i was 19 and we were'nt allowed either:) it is silly when you know there's no personal reason- as in you have never given them any reason not to trust you- but it is a huge deal to most parents and i guess th... (read in full...)
Will he come and look for me? Or will he go to his ex?
Q. Hello, here is my issue. It's little complicated but please bear with me because I really need your insight to my problem. Okay here the issue. 6yrs ago I met a guy who was in the military. He told me he loved me and wanted to married me. I wa...
A. 14 August 2008: well you're doing very well with the situation so far. this man said "still love you and you was always the person wants to be with and so happy you met again" but then why didn't he tell you about the other girl? and calling her the day you break ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble getting closer to my girlfriend and communicating with her properly.
Q. My girlfriend of 2 months is great! she's funny, stylish, and is full of energy. Makes me wonder why the hell she would even WANT to date me. The problem I'm having is: it is near impossible for me to talk to her or get close to her. I just wont let ...
A. 14 August 2008: if you want to get close you are going to have to stop worrying about what others think. the only people's opinions that should be able to get to you is people who know and care for you.
if you want to try get used to it why not go out alone toge... (read in full...)
What do you think, Is there ant hope for me?
Q. My bf of 4.5 years dumped me 2 weeks ago. He was acting distant and not really affectionate 3 weeks before we broke up. I knew he liked this younger girl at his job (we are only 21 yrs old btw and she just turned 17)... I kept asking and asking ...
A. 13 August 2008: this must be really hard on you. sounds like you're doing really well dealing with it so well done.
this is one time when it really seems like "it's not you it's me" actually works. your mothers synopsis sounds like the best way to see it. and gett... (read in full...)
I'm trying to organise something in my community to bring people together. Any ideas?
Q. ok so i'm trying to organize something in my community to bring people together but ideas that will interest people are prooving quite hard to find, in general people act kind of apathetic and closeminded but there is so much more to them when you ...
A. 1 August 2008: wow amazing ideas, this is exactly the type of thing i was looking for. might start off small or with something that will get people interested like the funday thing then work our way up to the getting people comfortable and interested enough for ... (read in full...)
I promised my girlfriend a great gift, for her birthday, but I have no idea what to get her, please help me with suggestions?
Q. Its my girlfriends birthday coming up and we have been together what will be 2years in November. Stupidly I said to her that I will get her something really good for her birthday, now as it's getting closer she is starting to get excited by what I ...
A. 11 July 2008: its not how much you spend it is, cliche or not, the thought that counts. after two years you must know her personal likes and dislikes and something that involves both of you might be good too. if there's nothing you can think of that means ... (read in full...)
I want to please him, but I have NO idea what to do!
Q. im 20 and my boyfriend is 19. its embarrassing but i never thought i'd find someone to be close to and i love him deeply. i never thought about sex because i thought no-one would ever like me and now that i'm with my boyfriend i've realized it ...
A. 11 July 2008: thanks guys, i wasn't expecting such nice answers. i may have made my boyfriend sound bad in that but he's not he wants me to enjoy it and i know i should but i cant and its not his fault so i dont want him to miss out because of me. i get what ... (read in full...)
I read his text messages. Is my botfriend seeing a prostitue?
Q. OK, so here's the deal. I've been with my boyfriend for just about 5 years - mostly long distance. About 2 months ago, I moved cross-country to be with him. We got an apartment together (and even a puppy), and I thought everything was going ...
A. 11 July 2008: it des sound bad but your right to stay so calm it seems unlikely but there could be an explanation. some people do have harmless relationships that seem cheeky or inappropriate but its just the way they go on. either way dont jump the gun. honesty ... (read in full...)
This is ridiculous! Should I cut my losses and just go?
Q. I'm 34 he's 30. Two years together just the other day. haven't moved in no sign of marriage. Do i cut my losses and just go. Have tried to walk away before this but he won't hear of it yet won't change it either by doing things like move in or get ...
A. 11 July 2008: i'd say there is alot going on behind all this if he's feeling drained and you feel so tested as if you have to live up to something but everyone's right if you really want to be with each other he wont let this get in the way. he said he would move ... (read in full...)
This is ridiculous! Should I cut my losses and just go?
Q. I'm 34 he's 30. Two years together just the other day. haven't moved in no sign of marriage. Do i cut my losses and just go. Have tried to walk away before this but he won't hear of it yet won't change it either by doing things like move in or get ...
A. 11 July 2008: its always up to you whether the relationship's worth waiting for or comprimising for or not, no-one can tell you that. but if their is no good reason for you not to be able to move in together at this stage then i think maybe that is an indication ... (read in full...)
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