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I want to leave my wife and be with my lover, but I can't leave my kids!

Q.   We'll I'm 41 yr. old male, I've been married 14yrs and met a wonderful woman 7yrs ago and have been loving each other for the past 7 yrs. I've lied about being married still over the last 7yrs. I love this woman who's not my wife. I want to leave...

A.   24 May 2008: First of all do you want to leave your wife to be with your lover or do you want to leave because you do not want to spend the rest of your life with her? What excatly are you struggling with?... (read in full...)

In it for the kids, how do I choose a life of my choice instead of a life for others??

Q.   THIS IS WHERE I'M AT RIGHT NOW IN MY LIFE... QUOTES I FOUND ON LINE.. HOW DO I CHOICE A LIFE OF MY CHOICE INSTEAD OF A LIFE FOR MY CHILDREN? I can choose to stay married until the pain of staying married becomes greater than the pain of...

A.   24 May 2008: Why would you put your family through this for the sake of security? That is simply selfish. You have robbed your children of seeing both their mother and father happy for the sake of having a comfortable lifestyle?? I have an issue with this ... (read in full...)

In it for the kids, how do I choose a life of my choice instead of a life for others??

Q.   THIS IS WHERE I'M AT RIGHT NOW IN MY LIFE... QUOTES I FOUND ON LINE.. HOW DO I CHOICE A LIFE OF MY CHOICE INSTEAD OF A LIFE FOR MY CHILDREN? I can choose to stay married until the pain of staying married becomes greater than the pain of...

A.   24 May 2008: Why would you put your family through this for the sake of security? That is simply selfish. You have robbed your children of seeing both their mother and father happy for the sake of having a comfortable lifestyle?? I have an issue with this ... (read in full...)

My husband has had an affair for the past year.

Q.   5 weeks ago I found out that my husband (we've been married 21 years)had an affair last year. He says that it is over and is trying very hard to make ammends. we talk a lot and are going to relate. He has told lots of lies and last week I found that ...

A.   24 May 2008: Hi, You may hate me for what I am about to write but please read the entire message first. First of all I commend you for actually discussing this with your husband. When I found out my now ex-husband was having an affair I wanted to talk to him a... (read in full...)

I aborted the child of a married man I had an affair with... What would you do?

Q.   i had an affair with a married man for one year. i fell pregnant and he said it wasn't the right time for us to be having children but we would when i no longer worked with him and i had my own flat. i had the abortion, reluctantly but then he ...

A.   16 September 2007: In response to Frank B Kermit's answer. Do you know the full circumstances behind what transpired? Kermit is basically a wounded soul. Telling the wife or anyone that knows him? That would put so much pressure on your relationship sho... (read in full...)

I am cheating on my husband with my best friends husband and don't know what to do!

Q.   I have this crazy situation. I've been with the same man for 17 years, married for the last 11 years. I have had the same best friend since high school. She has also been with her husband for the last 17 years and they have been married for the ...

A.   15 September 2007: There is obviously a reason why both of you are going outside the marriage. I am in a similsar situation except I left my husband of 9 years because I cannot be with 2 men at the same time. I was never really D's friend as she is very self ... (read in full...)

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