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Should I stay away from her until she's officially divorced? Right now she's separated.

Q.   So, this is a new one for me... There is this girl that I got acquainted with recently. We really hit it off well and have a lot in common. We do seem to connect well on an emotional level and she says that I bring out the best in her and stir ...

A.   28 October 2014: Oh, I wouldn't mind just being friends with her at the moment, I'd be okay with that. I'm just not sure she would feel the same way. If not for her being in the middle of this divorce, it would probably be easier for me to want to date her, but... ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel so crushed that this girl I barely know is leaving?

Q.   Have you ever just met a person and just as you were getting to know them well, and found out that you have a lot in common, all of a sudden they announce that they are leaving/moving away/something else? That's what happened to me in the past m...

A.   4 July 2014: As a man of faith myself, I always believe that He's looking after us, even when it seems like He isn't. And I'm very happy that He brought her into my life. As for us meeting again, it may happen yet... I just found out from one of my co-work... (read in full...)

Why do I feel so crushed that this girl I barely know is leaving?

Q.   Have you ever just met a person and just as you were getting to know them well, and found out that you have a lot in common, all of a sudden they announce that they are leaving/moving away/something else? That's what happened to me in the past m...

A.   30 June 2014: She talks about him once in a while, not like some of these other girls I've known who talk about their boyfriends endlessly (how annoying). She does sound happy about him and (BIG UPDATE) I just found out today that she's known him since high ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel so crushed that this girl I barely know is leaving?

Q.   Have you ever just met a person and just as you were getting to know them well, and found out that you have a lot in common, all of a sudden they announce that they are leaving/moving away/something else? That's what happened to me in the past m...

A.   26 June 2014: I am single, never been married. Again, I knew it wouldn't go any further than co-worker or friend, but as a couple? Not while she has a boyfriend, no. I do respect that fact very much so and she sounds like she's really happy with him. But it'... (read in full...)

Is Oral sex considered losing your virginity ?

Q.   Is Oral sex considered losing your virginity? Me and my Boyfriend have been together for a few years and still haven't done it. I want to save my virginity for my husband on my wedding night rather it ends up being the guy I'm with or not. I love m...

A.   9 June 2014: Here's the way I see it: Oral sex does NOT count toward losing your virginity. It's a sexual act, but it's not sex itself. Dry humping is also a sexual act and few consider that to be sex itself (if it were, nobody that would walk into a dance ... (read in full...)

A girl told me that my hair was man pretty. What does that mean?

Q.   A few days ago, a girl who I've never met before told me that she liked my hair (I have long hair and it was tied in a ponytail on this day). I thanked her for the kind words, and then she followed up by saying something I've never heard before: ...

A.   3 May 2013: Thanks for the feedback, ladies. It all makes good sense to me. I feel all warm and fuzzy now! :-) ... (read in full...)

What does a guy do in my position???

Q.   Ok, picture this: Guy JUST breaks up with controlling girlfriend, guy goes out to a party that same night, meets new girl, someone he feels he gets along better with than previous girlfriend. As they're talking and look like they're getting re...

A.   16 December 2008: I'm looking for honest impartial feedback so I will know if the decision I made was the right one.... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by leaving the place and not going further with the new girl? Or did I dupe myself?

Q.   I finally broke up with my needy, neurotic girlfriend of six months, and went out to a Halloween party that same night. Next thing you know, I'm talking to this new girl, one who really seems into me (probably because of my costume), asks for my ...

A.   4 November 2008: It didn't end too well; the manner in which I broke up with my gf was rather unflattering, resulting in an argument over the phone (something very commmonplace between us), and I felt relieved to be rid of her. But when I saw her at this place, all ... (read in full...)

She's back; a royal pain in my butt...and I can't shake it!

Q.   Lately, I've been sort of dating a woman who I used to date a couple of years ago, but it didn't work out. In fact, she proved to be one of the worst dates I've ever had. So why are we together again? Well, it's a matter of she's my best f...

A.   5 August 2008: You were right, Lexilou and Emilyanswers. It would be wise for me to just make a clean break. Unfortunately, before I got to do that, I saw that this girl had already deleted me off of her Myspace friends list without warning and supposed... (read in full...)

She's back; a royal pain in my butt...and I can't shake it!

Q.   Lately, I've been sort of dating a woman who I used to date a couple of years ago, but it didn't work out. In fact, she proved to be one of the worst dates I've ever had. So why are we together again? Well, it's a matter of she's my best f...

A.   4 August 2008: No no no you don't understand. The woman irritates me no end, she's antagonistic and opinionated, and she uses guilt as a way of getting what she wants. I happen to be accepting of human emotions and lending an open ear to a person's troubles... (read in full...)

She was perfect for me...but I still couldn't give myself to her.

Q.   Hello, my name is Daniel. I'm a 24 year old male from the Bronx, New York. A few years ago, I was 21 and dating a woman I knew from a college class. We dated for almost a year and connected in all sorts of ways: she was friendly, cared ...

A.   25 June 2008: Thank you very much for the feedback, ladies. Your comments made me feel better. I'm looking to embrace my future now and leave these aspects of my past behind. Much appreciated!... (read in full...)

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