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I keep my daughter from seeing her dad as little as possible..am I choosing the right path on my daughter's behalf ?

Q.   I wrote in yesterday and tried to respond…but there was an error…“I’ve been so strong but will I regret not having him in my life?” Thanx for your insightful advice on this one, I don’t have anyone else to discuss this with and appreciate all your ...

A.   15 October 2010: Honey....I am the step-mother of 2 children. Their moms each have just the one kid and alot of hurt and history with my husband. I have seen both sides first hand as I have 2 children from a previous marriage and 2 with him. This is my take: ... (read in full...)

Should I confess or just keep quiet??

Q.   Ladies...I need to get an honest opinion of how you would deal with this situation: Let's say you started a friendship with a guy who dazzled you like no other man, but he had a serious girlfriend. You found out later their relationship had...

A.   15 October 2010: Ok...so he did not have sexual relations with her as far as he has told you and you have trusted his words. They do say that the "guilty always accuse." That is true in a sense...it is just the sub-concious trying to see a preview of what could ... (read in full...)

My wife wants me to choose...her and the kids or my parents! What should I do?

Q.   My wife told me today that I have to choose her and the kids or my parents. I feel that this is the most painful decison anyone ever has to make and definetly should not have to make. My wife and I have been married for 2 years we have a 4 mos old ...

A.   14 October 2010: I know this is way old post...but I am a wife feeling the same as your wife. I do want to say somethings: The first part of the bible is about man and wife...marriage. Not parents and birth of children. "Therefore shall a man leave his father... (read in full...)

I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum

Q.   I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...

A.   14 October 2010: One more thing...all the advice of not telling her is wrong. If you have any belief in God, seek the wisdom of a Pastor. The bible is kind of like our instruction book in life. Many many passages speak of telling the truth no matter what. Confessing ... (read in full...)

I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum

Q.   I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...

A.   14 October 2010: I am shocked by some of the replys! This is not good at all. 1st...what if the tables were turned in years to come and your daughter did this with your husband who was her step-father? Would you want to know? 2nd...do you love your mom or him more? ... (read in full...)

Should I confess or just keep quiet??

Q.   Ladies...I need to get an honest opinion of how you would deal with this situation: Let's say you started a friendship with a guy who dazzled you like no other man, but he had a serious girlfriend. You found out later their relationship had...

A.   11 October 2010: OK, this is tough. But I think you should tell him. They say what is done in the dark will come to light. I have been on the other end of this. My story close to yours. I asked if there was closure with his x and he said yes. All the signs began to ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with having sex with a thick person??

Q.   Whats wrong with having sex with a really thick person? I dont see the big deal?...

A.   11 October 2010: Hi there. There is nothing wrong with having sex with a thick person. Everyone needs love on all levels. I have spent the majority of my life as a thick girl. I am 5'10 so I carried the weight pretty good. My highest weight was 287lbs. After some... (read in full...)

Is my Mom wrong for going behind my back with my kids.

Q.   Hello all. I wanted to ask this question and hope for many replys so I can show my mom bias views. My mom has underminded me several times when it comes to my children. I have always saw her as my bestest friend ever. I am always honest with her. ...

A.   11 October 2010: I posted a more detail question....but I just need more bias replies. If I am a good mother working and sacrificing to give my children a good life, causing them no harm, (I am a little strict in life lessons ways) should my mother or any parent (in ... (read in full...)

Is my Mom wrong for going behind my back with my kids.

Q.   Hello all. I wanted to ask this question and hope for many replys so I can show my mom bias views. My mom has underminded me several times when it comes to my children. I have always saw her as my bestest friend ever. I am always honest with her. ...

A.   10 October 2010: She has threatened to take me to court and use my medical issues and hsitory of failed relationships. She knows I was in the right about my failed marriage and the one that is having problems now...and she said, "This will make it even harder on you ... (read in full...)

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